margot13 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 It's crazy, I was doing so well and then the approaching of an insignificant strike of midnight seems to have set me back into wishing I was with my ex again. Like all the hard work I have been doing is completely vanished by this approaching moment. Why is it so important? And I know I will look back on it one day and not recognize myself but that is not helping me now :-) Is anyone else having the same or have I really become a nutcase? 6
pickflicker Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 You should be looking at it as a chance to slam the door on 2013, tell it good riddance, and start again. 9
legion113 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 You should be looking at it as a chance to slam the door on 2013, tell it good riddance, and start again. Yep that's what I'm doing, hoping to lose a few brain cells tonight, hopefully the ones with my memories of my ex 4
WhiteTan Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 (edited) I completely understand. Last new years eve I spent was just me and my ex and it was a very special night. This year not only is he gone but I guarantee he's gonna kiss somebody else at midnight tomorrow, probably gonna get laid too. It hurts.. but he's already kissed and had sex with other people so I'm trying not to stress it. I don't know what 2014 is gonna bring but I hope it has more positive experiences than 2013. Edited December 31, 2013 by WhiteTan 2
legion113 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I completely understand. Last new years eve I spent was just me and my ex and it was a very special night. This year not only is he gone but I guarantee he's gonna kiss somebody else at midnight tomorrow, probably gonna get laid too. It hurts.. but he's already kissed and had sex with other people so I'm trying not to stress it. still probably gonna think about it as soon as the clock strikes midnight. I don't know what 2014 is gonna bring but I hope it has more positive experiences than 2013. If I'm not face down in my own vomit by morning I'm going to be a little disappointed 6
pickflicker Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 If I'm not face down in my own vomit by morning I'm going to be a little disappointed That's the spirit! Something the OP and all of us can aim for!
Author margot13 Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 That's the spirit! Something the OP and all of us can aim for! True, I guess that is an achievable thing for this evening, dellude of all fantasy it is actually a reachable result. 2
Haydn Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Too much sauce on new years eve? I wont be. Fireworlks with my daughter then off to bed. I look forward to the posts of `broke nc` tomorrow. Seriously though, hope you all get through today. And Legion what would you suggest for a worrying rash? 5
darkmoon Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I once spent midnight alone surrounded by kissing couples - head for a single's event - get some kisses for yourself xxx < here's a start 1
headinthecloud Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I'm actually looking forward to 2014 and celebrating the opportunity to start with a fresh new positive perspective. There is so much to be thankful for and I can't wait to create wonderful new experiences. "dance like nobody's watching." 3
TylerDurdenn Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Ex sent me a text telling me to enjoy my midnight kiss. I know what she'll be doing then.
Insanityisdoingsame Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 There is a rave called Last Dance with Zeds Dead headlining. Is it lame if I go by myself ? Its been 3 years since Ive been to a show single. But back then I used to make out and meet new girls pretty much every time I went. Hell I met my ex at a rave 3 years ago and made out with her that same night... Ahhh Im just scared cause Its been so long...
David87 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 It's crazy, I was doing so well and then the approaching of an insignificant strike of midnight seems to have set me back into wishing I was with my ex again. Like all the hard work I have been doing is completely vanished by this approaching moment. Why is it so important? And I know I will look back on it one day and not recognize myself but that is not helping me now :-) Is anyone else having the same or have I really become a nutcase? Tonight I'm going to a party with my friends, they all have girlfriends, I'm the only moron there single. My ex on the other hand already has a new boyfriend and she will have the time of her life, seems like her biggest achievement in 2013 was to get rid of me.
Bandini Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Yeah me too, but because she will certainly getting laid with some random dude.
Author margot13 Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 Tonight I'm going to a party with my friends, they all have girlfriends, I'm the only moron there single. My ex on the other hand already has a new boyfriend and she will have the time of her life, seems like her biggest achievement in 2013 was to get rid of me. That sucks, I really hope for you, you have fun despite it all. I was thinking of just going to sleep at around 10 and wake up when it is over :-) 1
David87 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I will get drunk and that's it, hope for a better year. 1
True Gent Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I'm not looking forward to the thoughts of her kissing her new man at midnight. Celebrating her new year and new relationship after only leaving me a few weeks previously. Getting drunk probably isn't a good idea for me tonight, the drink makes me think too much and I get annoyed thinking about the two of them.
organizedchaos Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I am excited for the new year and what it may bring. 5 months post bu and I met someone recently that looks to have potential. Looking forward to seeing how this develops.
JDPT Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Yes we spent NYE together and I can still vividly recall her grabbing me and softly kissing me. However, that in a few hours will be in the past. I can't wait for it to be over. I really just want to get to business. 2
Author margot13 Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 Yes we spent NYE together and I can still vividly recall her grabbing me and softly kissing me. However, that in a few hours will be in the past. I can't wait for it to be over. I really just want to get to business. I understand, I was supposed to spend tonight with my ex, and now I just want it to happen and let me get on with end of next year and away from all these terrible days!!! 1
FortunateSon Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I plan to be asleep at midnight. I am not concerned about what my ex is or isn't with someone else tonight. I just ended a 2 month casual dating relationship today when it was clear I wasn't healed from my ex yet, I look forward to starting the New Year with a clean slate and single!! 1
StyleOnEm Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Ex sent me a text telling me to enjoy my midnight kiss. I know what she'll be doing then. She'll be thinking about how good your midnight kiss was. And if it led somewhere else.
StyleOnEm Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Last year my ex and I had the best New Years of both our lives - I know she's most likely not going to top it this year, so she'll be thinking about our time together, even for a brief moment. As for me, I already have a sexy girl I'm going out to a concert with tonight so I'm good.
Softie Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I thought I'd be ok but now I'm dreading the line in the sand that the end of the year brings. I'm going out with friends in a few hours but I'm in floods of tears now (and I had been doing pretty good). Really missing my ex right now and just wish he would hold me like he used to and be kind n sweet how he was in the beginning. :-( 1
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