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I remember someone saying that if you come across a women's profile and she is saying............"I am not looking for a bed buddy"

 

Means she is hiding the fact that she is looking for one and that is her way of covering it up? I mean it makes sense because if a women knows she is not looking for sex how come she has to put in her profile? I mean I know I'm not looking for a one night stand and don't feel the need to put it in my profile

 

 

So I am thinking it maybe some truth to that. What do you think

deathandtaxes Established Member

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Maybe it just means she is tired of getting messages from people that are just looking to hook up.

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Maybe it just means she is tired of getting messages from people that are just looking to hook up.

 

 

But is a profile like that really going to stop those type of messages? lol

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I agree with this. The girl I met on POF said on her profile "looking for a long term relationship" but yet basically the first time we had met, we were watching a movie, I made absolutely no move besides sitting next to her and she just suddenly started massaging my dick. Uhh...not looking to hookup? Bull****!

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It means she expects you to buy her a few dinners and tell her she's beautiful first. Or maybe skip the dinners and just be nice.

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deathandtaxes Established Member

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I agree with this. The girl I met on POF said on her profile "looking for a long term relationship" but yet basically the first time we had met, we were watching a movie, I made absolutely no move besides sitting next to her and she just suddenly started massaging my dick. Uhh...not looking to hookup? Bull****!

 

 

 

She could have had the best of intentions and just felt really horny that night or was smitten by you ;)

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WOW you guys are reading so much into this. I say this in my profile and I want a RELATIONSHIP. I say it because I get way too many annoying casual guys emailing me and it DOES help to week some of that out by putting exactly what you are looking for in your profile.

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Plenty of men say they want a relationship or marriage but only want casual sex.

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I remember someone saying that if you come across a women's profile and she is saying............"I am not looking for a bed buddy"

 

Means she is hiding the fact that she is looking for one and that is her way of covering it up? I mean it makes sense because if a women knows she is not looking for sex how come she has to put in her profile? I mean I know I'm not looking for a one night stand and don't feel the need to put it in my profile

 

 

So I am thinking it maybe some truth to that. What do you think

 

 

It's either to block out creepy guys (which probably won't work anyway) or it's simply a slut shield to let men know upfront she's not "easy"

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Thegreatestthing Established Member

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I don't think women are sure what they are after.

 

Profile pic.

http://pics.plentyoffish.com/dating/224/70/4gco30kz5wixg0w1b2gspvgje374503055.jpg

 

" I'm looking to met someone who actually wants something real and looking to settle down if things get to that level."

 

"Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.

Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter

Must not be looking for Activity Partner"

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Nice false advertisement on her pic by shooting it at that angle with her tits showing.

 

I'd stay clear of that one.

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salparadise Established Member

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WOW you guys are reading so much into this. I say this in my profile and I want a RELATIONSHIP. I say it because I get way too many annoying casual guys emailing me and it DOES help to week some of that out by putting exactly what you are looking for in your profile.

 

Let me guess... you also have the pink pucker lips and high angle selfies showing the rack? And right after the line about not wanting sex you explain that you don't do drama?

 

It reminds me of a salesman who for the first fifteen minutes goes on and on about what an honest guy he is... people who are honest don't need to tell you they are; it never crosses their mind. Saying in the profile that you aren't looking for sex confirms one thing for certain... she's thinking about sex.

 

All women want relationships, half of the people are either ten years older or 2" shorter than they appear in their profile, and everybody on a dating site is looking for sex.

 

You learn at least as much reading between the lines as by reading the words. Oh and by the way, I don't mean to be cynical.

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I don't think women are sure what they are after.

 

Profile pic.

http://pics.plentyoffish.com/dating/224/70/4gco30kz5wixg0w1b2gspvgje374503055.jpg

 

" I'm looking to met someone who actually wants something real and looking to settle down if things get to that level."

 

"Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.

Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter

Must not be looking for Activity Partner"

WTF is wrong with these girls? I would NEVER leave my bathroom trashcan in the pic when sending a selfie shot of my ginormous rack. Trashy. Literally.

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I have "I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK-UP" specifically stated on my OLD profile. Why, because I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK-UP. I didn't originally have it on there but after receiving messages saying "hey, wanna #uck", "your a MILF", "your photos make my dic% hard" and so on and so forth. My OLD profile states I'm looking for a relationship. I added the "I'm not looking for a hook-up to help those out who clearly lack reading comprehension skills.

 

And I'll add, my photos are head shots, no cleavage nothing sexual, and one shot of myself fully dressed standing by my piano with my daughter.

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deathandtaxes Established Member

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All women want relationships, half of the people are either ten years older or 2" shorter than they appear in their profile, and everybody on a dating site is looking for sex.

 

 

 

Came across posts by okcupid's research people that confirms your height statement. They looked at the heights listed at all their members and compared them with what the height distribution of the population should be. The okc distribution was consistently shifted taller, maybe two inches or so, with a very curious thing happening at the 6' mark for the men. The distribution was flattened there, meaning way more men were claiming that mark than there ever should be.

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But you ladies still fall for the hot guys with zero personality. Even the ones who say this in their profile.

 

Just so you know, the hot guys are the worst. They seem to have some sense of entitlement.

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Yes it's just not true,I get more messages from hot guys than normal ones but the one guy I did actually really like due to reasons I don't really understand was strange looking,but completely utterly hot to me.

 

I think he sensed I was gaga over him,while the hot guys still message and I dont feel any attraction to them.

 

Some guys are like this too,they have particular tastes or whatnot.

 

I don't get sex related msges at all,prob because I have no tight clothes/revealing Anything pics.

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spiderowl Established Member

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I think she means what she says and just that. If you assume a woman means 'yes' when she says 'no', you could get into big trouble.

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Women put that in their profiles because men bombard them with creepiness. It's a futile attempt to weed out the horn dogs but, alas, it fails each and every time.

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I don't know, I feel like if a woman says that, it's probably a Freudian slip of some kind and she really is looking to hook up. She just wants to cut down on the number of messages in her inbox.

 

I don't look for hookups, and women who say they aren't never reply to my messages. So I figure that's why...

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WP4046 Established Member

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I think it's a stupid to start a profile essay, too negative

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irc333 Established Member

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If I Head a dime for EVERY TIME I have seen a woman put, "I am not looking for an FWB, bed buddy, player, etc"

 

I'd be a rich man.

 

I'm getting literally sick of seeing this. As if that would STOP THESE men from contacting them? RIIiiight! lol

 

I remember someone saying that if you come across a women's profile and she is saying............"I am not looking for a bed buddy"

 

Means she is hiding the fact that she is looking for one and that is her way of covering it up? I mean it makes sense because if a women knows she is not looking for sex how come she has to put in her profile? I mean I know I'm not looking for a one night stand and don't feel the need to put it in my profile

 

 

So I am thinking it maybe some truth to that. What do you think

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