Afool4him Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 Since all of you in here have helped me SO much, I feel that I should pass on some advice that has helped me through this rough time in my life. Just to recap my live-in boyfriend of 7 yrs and I broke up almost 3 months ago. Here are some pieces of advice that have helped me, I hope it can help someone out there: To all in the broken hearts club...IT WILL GET BETTER!!! 1)NO CONTACT..this means no sending cards, no e-mails, no texts, no answering phone calls, no returning phone calls, no letters...best way to put this PRETEND YOU NEVER KNEW THIS PERSON.... 2) For those of you that still want to be freinds with your ex, it has to be WHEN YOU are ready..rule to live by, it is HARD to be freinds with the person you are in love with! Knowing they are with other people is like a knife in the back...When you are over them, then decide whether or not YOU want to be freinds. 3) And here is something that goes along with #1: THIS WAS TAKEN FROM AN E-MAIL I RECEIVED FROM A VERY GOOD FRIEND IT WAS TAKEN FROM A THOUGH BY T.D. JAKES... There are people that can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.I don't want you to try and talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And if it takes too much sweat, I DON'T NEED IT. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!! If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to...LET IT GO!!! GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF YOU!!!
Sarah12385 Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 amen to #2 and thank you T.D Jakes very good comment. however, until the restraining orders come into play...i shall cement my ex bf to the floor of my house (only kidding ) ~Sarah~
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