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can i ask guy to NYE party 3rd date?


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Or is that going to freak him out......

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"freak him out"......I'd be surprised, and maybe that could be a test marker for you if he is. For me parties are the best. I would not get stressed and read too much into it that its some sort of sign the girl is moving too fast just because she invited me to a party. Depending on the crowd, it often beats going to a pub/club or just hanging out to watch fireworks on the night. Have fun.

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"freak him out"......I'd be surprised, and maybe that could be a test marker for you if he is. For me parties are the best. I would not get stressed and read too much into it that its some sort of sign the girl is moving too fast just because she invited me to a party. Depending on the crowd, it often beats going to a pub/club or just hanging out to watch fireworks on the night. Have fun.

 

its a super small party like 10 people. So you think it's ok? I've had guys freak out on me before for asking them to hang out during the day (= relationship). Obviously I AM looking for a relationship lol

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No I don't think it would freak him out. Understand he may be busy though; it's last minute.

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I hope the party gets cancelled.

 

Karma, dude. I believe in it.

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I wouldn't. If he hasn't mentioned spending NYE with you by now, he likely has other plans.

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Who gives a damn? Ask him. A normal guy who likes you (the only kind you want to be dating right?) would not be scared off and if he had other plans it wouldn't be a big deal and he would just tell you that he's got something going.

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theres no doubt Ill be beaten to a pulp before long.

 

Yeah, by yourself, in the gym over the next 6 months. Stop feelin sorry for yourself and perform action

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Such an invitation would not "freak out" any person anywhere near normal. It's just a party....no lifetime commitment implied.

 

Now, OTOH, if you handed him a slip of paper with an appointment for him to donate sperm to your account at the sperm bank, THAT would be a potential issue.

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