tomblanco123 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 The breakup was bad. She dumped me years ago. I would like to wish her happy bd next week. Should I? I have no desire to get back with her. I just feel that this is the right thing to do to show her that I don't hate her anymore. Just a simple bd message, no jazz, no emotional things... We have no mutual friends.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 If you're over her and happy with any outcome sure why not, life is short it can't hurt. Why did you come here to ask this question before you acted?
tem7074 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Do whatever you want. Don't expect much to come out of it.
Author tomblanco123 Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 Why did you come here to ask this question before you acted? On my part, there are no hard feelings anymore. However, I am not sure about her. As I said, it was a bad breakup - be both hurt each other badly.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 She won't care about it any more, it's not fresh.
StringsAttached Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 I don't get it. Why would you msg your ex years later to wish her happy birthday especially if it was a messy breakup? Why now? What if you msg her and she ignores you or says thanks and that's it? Is it worth it? The relationship didn't work out she should be dead to you. This makes me so sad. There's a reason why you're posting this under 'coping'. I don't think you're over her.
d0nnivain Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 If you accidently bump into her during the next two weeks (one week before b-day & one week after) sure. What's the point of reaching out after all this time just to offer good wishes?
Author tomblanco123 Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 I don't get it. Why would you msg your ex years later to wish her happy birthday especially if it was a messy breakup? Why now? What if you msg her and she ignores you or says thanks and that's it? Is it worth it? The relationship didn't work out she should be dead to you. This makes me so sad. There's a reason why you're posting this under 'coping'. I don't think you're over her. Her bd just popped up in my reminder when I logged into one of my old email address that I haven't been using. That's the reason it came back to my mind. And the reason for posting under this topic is simple: I didn't know where else to out it as we are not friends, nor lovers and we are not going through breakup anymore either.
Author tomblanco123 Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 If you accidently bump into her during the next two weeks (one week before b-day & one week after) sure. What's the point of reaching out after all this time just to offer good wishes? We won't accidentally bump into each other. We live far away from each other, different continents.
Sugarkane Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 If she ended things on bad terms, why even bother? I wouldn't. 1
Author tomblanco123 Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 I'm not sure her new boyfriend would find that amusing. Do you think so? Even after 5 - 6 years? I mean, it is a simple happy bd message. It is not like I am asking her out for a coffee... I think - but maybe I just take these things too lightly.
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