conmorse Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Ex and I were dating for 2 years. Broke up in November, so it's been a month and a half post break up. The reason for the breakup was that she said she no longer felt the same way, had emotionally distanced herself back in October, that she had to work on herself and that the spark disappeared. It was basically a blindside breakup as she never brought any of this up before. Just recently I heard from a mutual friend of both mine and the ex, that curiosity is really killing her. She's been curious as to what I've been doing and what I've been up to. I've remained NC since the breakup and deleted her on Facebook and other social media. I also found out that she has no problem if I wanted to talk to her, but she just doesn't want it to be another "break up" all over again and that she wouldn't know what we'd even talk about. I've been dying to talk to her since the break up, but I know that it should be her to reach out first as shes the "dumper". Clearly if she actually cared enough she would do this, but feels too guilty or scared about wanting to reach out. What exactly does it mean that shes curious? Why would she be curious? Yeah we were together for 2 years and its natural to be curious, but she should have carefully thought this through when she ended it. She should have known I would no longer be a part of her life. Throughout our entire relationship I was I was always the one who did "chasing", so for me to immediately stop chasing her after the breakup is going completely against the grain. Not once have I "begged" or "pleaded" other than the initial break up, so its going against everything she knows about me. Is this why shes curious? Was she expecting me to try to "beg" and "win" her back, but is now rather confused when I did the complete opposite by going No Contact?
shakepig Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 curious how come you've moved on so fast, curious if she could be part of your life and mess with your mind again? I do sound bitter...
2fargone Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 It's human nature.. don't think anything of it.
TylerDurdenn Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 My ex says stuff like "I'm not interested in you and i just want you to be happy, but have you been with any other girls yet or talking to any? You don't have to lie to me" Seriously.
shakepig Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 My ex says stuff like "I'm not interested in you and i just want you to be happy, but have you been with any other girls yet or talking to any? You don't have to lie to me" Seriously. :lmao:
Author conmorse Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 The thing is I haven't moved on. Im still thinking about her and grieving since the break up. She was the one who moved on quickly. I found out 3 weeks after the break up she was already "hanging out" with some other guy. So it makes no sense why shes interested on what im doing
shakepig Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 The thing is I haven't moved on. Im still thinking about her and grieving since the break up. She was the one who moved on quickly. I found out 3 weeks after the break up she was already "hanging out" with some other guy. So it makes no sense why shes interested on what im doing not going so well with some other guy as she expected...
innocentbutterfly Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 My ex says stuff like "I'm not interested in you and i just want you to be happy, but have you been with any other girls yet or talking to any? You don't have to lie to me" Seriously. lol he says the exact same thing to me for men... like what the hell is his problem, he dumped me. He says if I see you happy with other man it will make me happy, like WTF? I guess they're doing it to not feel guilty/feel they decided right
legion113 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 My ex says stuff like "I'm not interested in you and i just want you to be happy, but have you been with any other girls yet or talking to any? You don't have to lie to me" Seriously. Yeah your mother, your sister, and your friends..but hey, I'm HAPPY thanks 3
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