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I got closure..and I'm hurting


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Please, I repeat, please don't jump into a relationship only because you miss the XMM and want to feel desired again. You are still desirable, beautiful, and will find someone who treats you right. Heal first, make new FRIENDS and reconnect w/ old ones.

 

The thing is that I don't even think I can get a relationship. I have met two men since the xMM ended it, and they have both rejected me. I'm scared I'll never find someone who wants to be with me :(

 

But I know what you mean and I really think that I should keep away from men until I'm ok again.

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You're not ready for a relationship right now, at all. Trust me, once you feel better and are well along on the healing path, your energy will change, you'll feel happier and more like your good old self again, a (single) guy will walk into your life when the timing is right. The last thing you need now is another guy or a new relationship. You know this too.

 

Be with your women friends, your kids, and loving people who care about you. Try not to worry about the future and what's in store for you.

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