cottom Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Background to the future mother in law: She has a husband, he cheated on her and then moved in with his girlfriend. He still comes back to his wife most nights to see his kids passing between his wifes house and girlfriends, if she ever talks to a man he goes mad and threatens her etc. I have seen many texts off this woman to my partner calling me names and slagging me off. Ive been with my partner for 1 year now, weve had a near perfect relationship. We have only had 1 proper argument in our relationship, which was when photos surfaced of her on facebook giving oral in a club a week before we met. We got "drunk" (we had 2 drinks each and then cant remember anything from the night more or less - spiked maybe because we shared her drink). Anyway, walking home she vanished, i called her mom to help find her and then she turned up and ran away when she heard her mom was coming. Her mom found her down the road, i was looking in the wrong place. The next day her mom text me saying we should end our relationship because we clearly arent right for each other. I told my partner this over facebook while she worked and said "of course we must do what she says, she obviously knows how to make a relationship work". Today she hacked into her daughters facebook and read her private messages between me and her, and now she is demanding that she never sees me again and is threatening to cut my partner out her life if she doesnt leave me. I cant take her in because i work away mon-fri and come home only on weekends so she is stuck living with her mother due to her work. How do i deal with this, this woman is a controlling bully who says she does this because she cares for her daughter.
Author cottom Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 23 and 21 years old thankyou. Her mom is very bitchy about alcohol and my partner is never allowed to drink...her mom has actually grounded her and when she said she was 21 she can leave whenever she dragged her in the house by her hair.
Janesays Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 23 and 21 years old thankyou. Her mom is very bitchy about alcohol and my partner is never allowed to drink...her mom has actually grounded her and when she said she was 21 she can leave whenever she dragged her in the house by her hair. Then have your girlfriend call the police if she pulls a stunt like that. She is a legal adult. If her Mother hits her or drags her by the hair, she can get her mother charged with assault. 1
Author cottom Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 Lol, her mother is police and so is her father. They know how to get around anything.
Author cottom Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 (edited) You want the full night story or you just being a troll? Boxing day party at main club in town, had 1 drink, can usually handle a bottle of vodka each. At 2am we left, walking the 20 minutes home it started torrential raining. Took refuge under a wooded area outside the hospital. Sat down, i stood up to go toilet, turned around and saw partner wasnt there, i ran around shouting her name and 5 minutes later she appeared saying she fell, banged her head and woke up in the hospital. I called her mom to tell her id found her and ask her to pick her up. She heard id got her mom to pick her up and went mad because her mom doesnt allow her to drink. She ran off into this wooded area, i went to follow but couldnt see her, wandering around the woods i got a call saying her mom had her and was taking her home. She was going to be staying in my apartment i have for weekend use here. Her mom got into her facebook because all you need is to request a password change, know the email account address and security question for email website when you dont know the password. The photo of her sucking off a guy was when she got her drink spiked and the guy is getting prosecuted. Edited December 30, 2013 by cottom
crederer Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 23 and 21 years old thankyou. Her mom is very bitchy about alcohol and my partner is never allowed to drink...her mom has actually grounded her and when she said she was 21 she can leave whenever she dragged her in the house by her hair. Woah man. This is messed up. To be honest the thing that sticks out in my mind is her giving oral to a guy in the club and having those pictures posted online. I mean I understand people make mistakes but this relationship has red flags out the wazoo. As far as her mother goes, all you can do is stand your ground, but do it respectfully. She also has to stand her ground. I don't know if I could respect someone at the age of 21 allowing themselves to be grounded or hiding from their mother, to be perfectly honest. I'm not much older than you either, so it's not like this is coming from a middle aged person (not saying their opinions are better or worse, just that I feel you can probably relate to a person your age better as different generations have different norms).
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