Author MichaelTheGreat Posted January 1, 2014 Author Posted January 1, 2014 Thanks Simon. It's not because I am lonely and wants to fill a temporary void. the truth is I didn't want to end it.. but did you ever had the feeling when the woman seems want to be out of the relationship but she just can't break it up? That's what I felt that time like she is just waiting for me to end it and stupid me ended it without even talking about the problems.. I just said I think it would be the best for us to break up so we can focus on our careers. She agreed and apologize if she can't be a girlfriend etc etc.. It's been 3 months and I still feel empty inside. Still don't know if I should be the one try to win her back. This isn't a movie. This is real life. Time is essential because the OP needs to figure out whether he really wants his ex back because a) he truly loves her and misses her and wants to be with her long-term or b) he's lonely and wants her to fill a temporary void. If it's a, then going in guns blazing because he was the dumper is acceptable. If it's b, he'll lose interest very quickly if he gets her back, which would be a sh*tty thing to do. But he needs to be removed from the situation for a while to do that. I mean, in the fictional movie world what you are advising is great. But movies are meant for entertainment. In real life you can't just go strictly by the seat of your pants. People get hurt badly that way.
Author MichaelTheGreat Posted January 3, 2014 Author Posted January 3, 2014 I broke no contact guys. I ask her back and if we can start over again. Will wait for her answer tom.
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