lostsoul4286 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I'm fighting this urge to send her a text asking if she's still in love with me... My intuition is telling me no, but the rest is pushing... HELP!!!
Philosoraptor Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I'm fighting this urge to send her a text asking if she's still in love with me... My intuition is telling me no, but the rest is pushing... HELP!!! If she was in love with you she would make that known on her own. Someone who truly wants to be with you will be with you, there would be no guessing involved. 4
Am4Real Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Go with Philosoraptor's advice -- it's the answer that tells all.
Mondmellonw Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I'm guessing she left you? She has to do that job if she still cares.
k10k Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Imagine how you will feel after pushing send -- the anxiety you will feel whilst waiting for a reply -- and then how you will feel if you don't get the reply/response you hope to get 2
JDPT Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 "No I don't love you anymore..." "Yes I love you dearly...." How does this help YOU again? Save yourself future grief and self aggrevation. You will only exacerbate your current mental state by trying to make sense of this. Be strong, ride the emotional roller coaster for now, take the waves as they come but know the pain will eventually and with tons of proactive effort in your behalf will subside. Hang tight buddy you will make it through this. 3
Kalinka1 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Why give her the opportunity to 1) ignore you or 2) say no? If she loved you, she would send you this question herself. Stay strong, tomorrow is another day.
Author lostsoul4286 Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 I messed up I'm so weak. She was my first love
JDPT Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Live and learn, get back on the wagon you'll be ok.
Author lostsoul4286 Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 Thanks, I'm so sorry. I've never been so weak, usually I just move on in any other situation. The love thing is something else.
k10k Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Don't be too hard on yourself, you're going through something that is not easy. Happens to most of us at some point...
Volthi10 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I'm fighting this urge to send her a text asking if she's still in love with me... My intuition is telling me no, but the rest is pushing... HELP!!! Save yourself some pain. I've done this over and over again with my ex, randomly send him a text saying IMY or I love you, or throw it in random conversations and all I get in return is one of the following - - Are you drunk? - Sorry
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