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"I'll say this. I've always taken risks. And have always been lead to win. I'm taking a risk with you. Risk it. Let me prove your wrong. You have my word you will be very excited if you do. Very excited after you do. Sex will bring me so close to you. You have no idea. You think I'm sweet now? lol. Just you wait. Take the risk and get the reward."

 

He also said, "Sex with me would bring me more emotionally connected"

 

And then he says, "I want you to promise me something" and I say, "what" and he says, "that when you get scared of me leaving you that you tell me right then"

This guy is 100% FULL OF CRAP. Ruuuuuuuun!!!

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I'm actually being serious, how old are you?

 

I'm a physician, so you can figure out the math, I'm not putting my age on a public forum heh

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This guy has stalker potential. Definitely time to block his number.

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This guy has stalker potential. Definitely time to block his number.

 

yep I agree

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I'm a physician, so you can figure out the math, I'm not putting my age on a public forum heh

 

Yet you'll put your picture on.... :laugh:

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Yet you'll put your picture on.... :laugh:

 

no one can really see my face...right? Right?!?!?!

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no one can really see my face...right? Right?!?!?!

 

well, not anymore. we now can see your SON's!

 

Age is the least exposure on here.

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well, not anymore. we now can see your SON's!

 

Age is the least exposure on here.

 

I deal with the elderly and hospice, so it's not really like they're going to be tracking me down online anyways heh heh

But that's why I believe in spirit guides and such, helps me to help the patients knowing where they'll be going soon.

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I deal with the elderly and hospice, so it's not really like they're going to be tracking me down online anyways heh heh

But that's why I believe in spirit guides and such, helps me to help the patients knowing where they'll be going soon.

 

You are a young physician aren't you?

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You are a young physician aren't you?

 

 

yeah, which is weird considering my patient population, most of them expect the typical gray haired guy, but I figure I have an old soul sooooo...

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yeah, which is weird considering my patient population, most of them expect the typical gray haired guy, but I figure I have an old soul sooooo...

 

well, hey, if you didn't get the hint already...I'm single and my heart is broken, can you fix it?

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I haven't read the whole thread, but based on the first post, this guy is the definition of co-dependent and needy. I would proceed with extreme caution if proceeding at all...

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well, hey, if you didn't get the hint already...I'm single and my heart is broken, can you fix it?

 

 

you can pm me:) I always thought you were fun to watch on these message boards, the in the out the in, reminds me of what I went thru. I did think they wre kind of hard on you at times too

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BYCS...

 

...when I read your initial post in this thread I gotta say it made me feel "uncomfortable." The metaphor that sprung to mind was of a person stranded in the desert, walking, dying of thirst...desperate for a drink.

 

Boom...she sees what she's always been looking for...the most beautiful oasis you've ever imagined. Waterfalls, half-coconut drinking mugs, and beautiful nubile servants to pour the water down your gullet. Paradise...if ever it existed.

 

So she directs her pained, tortured organism towards this beacon of light...using every last drop of precious energy and placing all her faith in it.

 

Of course...it wasn't what it seemed to be. It wasn't what her desperate, wounded, deprived brain craved for it to be (although the hallucination is an understandable projection given her predicament). Was all a mirage.

 

I'm not saying this guys creepy, or weird, or a freak. But I think you're both lost in the desert and you're each other's mirage here. I wouldn't bother directing your efforts over the next few months or years only to find that out...as others have wisely said...at this stage learn about yourself...not about a projected fantasy.

 

Of course, it's your call...but this guy wants to show himself he's better than the worthless piece of rubbish he must have felt he was when his ex cheated...he wants to show he's loveable...in you he sees a shot at that...

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BCYS your not ready for a new RS or even dating yet. Take 6 months off at least. Cav

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At first I thought: 'No no noooo!' Hell you are in no position to date, you need time to heal and learn.

 

Then I found out, this guy is an ever bigger asshat than your ex! Glad you found out before you dropped those panties. What a creep! I just barfed a little in my mouth when I read the texts he send you. He is only after sex and he is a major creep! Ieuw!

 

I once met a guy like this. I was looking for love and I was looking way to hard. After a sensual dance in the club, and a not so good first kiss, he asked me to walk outside the club... Straight to his car, he said he had condoms there and we could have a 'paradise by the dashboard lights'.. Uhm.. Hell no! Creep! Asshat! When I told him 'No thanks', he asked if I was sure. He wanted to rock my world (yeah.. in the back of a car. Gross! ). I couldn't stop laughing when I walked away, leaving him screaming: 'You don't know what you're missing bitch!' A real keeper there..

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