pickflicker Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Thing is, you don't need to be friends to see profiles, most are public and not private. So it makes little difference. And don't know about everyone else, facebook is not just good friends anymore, it is mostly aquaintances, and as some people say re-added exes. But your all probably right and I should just remove him. But he would get satisfaction out of it!!! That's why FB had a "block" function. One click and you're a ghost. 1
Volthi10 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 No can't do that, I have my own business, I need to keep the number the same or I would have to put a message telling my clients my new number on my old number :-). It is best to delete him and block him completely. My ex and I even while together were not friends on facebook for about six months,but we would occasionally message through it, now that we broke up I blocked him from every social media I could. I don't want to see him because I now how it affects me still. He got mad, but it's not for him, but for me. We have friends in common, but as long as I don't see him I am good. In regards to changing your number if you can't then you can just block him and you'll hear nothing from him even if he tried.
Parkour Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 My ex broke up with me 3months ago. We finished on good terms, for 6weeks it totally tortured me whilst I was trying to come to terms with it all. I then found myself again and met this amazing girl who I've been seeing for a month. Aside from a couple of 'bad' day's I've not viewed her profile in the last month as I feel happy without her now. Having said all that I may delete her in new year simply because I'm not sure I'm ready to see her with someone else.
chris21422 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 why wait for new year? My ex broke up with me 3months ago. We finished on good terms, for 6weeks it totally tortured me whilst I was trying to come to terms with it all. I then found myself again and met this amazing girl who I've been seeing for a month. Aside from a couple of 'bad' day's I've not viewed her profile in the last month as I feel happy without her now. Having said all that I may delete her in new year simply because I'm not sure I'm ready to see her with someone else.
Hoosfoos Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I have not blocked my ex from Facebook yet. I am not sure if I will or not. To me, once you do something like that, you cannot undo it. It also makes a big statement, one that I do not really want to make. Although she dumped me, and it hurts like hell, I want to go NC and have not looked at her profile ONCE since the breakup. I have her notifications turned off and those of her mutual friends turned off as well, so there is no trace of her on my news feed. Unfortunately she "liked" my new profile pic today which really pissed me off because this is a form of breaking contact. So although I'm not checking up on her, she's checking up on me. I want to show that over time that I am strong enough to to handle this. I was able to accomplish this with someone before. I am making no plans to reconcile or become friends with her down the line. I know that I posses the self control to no stalk her on Facebook since I have no desire to know what's going on in her life. Facebook really sucks bigtime when relationships are concerned. 2
organizedchaos Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Hell no. Unfriended right away. No need to block bc it wasn't a cruel bu. and she keeps her profile private. I unfriended all of her friends later on. She has yet to unfriend mine or my brother and his wife.
Author margot13 Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 Not to thread jack but I was just thinking that very same thing. I blocked him but sometimes I wonder if I would move on quicker if I changed my number. but I don't know. All my advertising, clients, everything for my business is that number. I have had my business less than a year and it's going well for just starting but afraid it would suffer if I changed it. I really can't afford to lose any business. is that being paranoid?? just curious if any self employed people have done it. ((hugs!)) I wouldn't, I just blocked his number. It's bad enough that he made me feel the way I did, there is no way I am putting my income and career upside down for him. After all we are mature adults aren't we? :-)
theonlyjuan Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 No, I don't care what she's up to. I don't talk to her and I don't plan on talking to her. If she wants to contact me she has my number
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