bostonterrier Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 By sensitive i don't mean crying over a broken nail,i mean being sweet and treat women with the respect they deserve,i know a lot of women prefer the macho type of men, but i cant just change who i am,and i will keep being the sweet guy i am till i die.
d0nnivain Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Sensitive, kind, polite, chivalrous are all wonderful qualities. Being a doormat is a bad thing. 3
Philosoraptor Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 In what world is respect a bad thing? It amazes me that people actually believe guys who treat women poorly get decent women. 2
GoodOnPaper Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 By sensitive i don't mean crying over a broken nail,i mean being sweet and treat women with the respect they deserve,i know a lot of women prefer the macho type of men, but i cant just change who i am,and i will keep being the sweet guy i am till i die. Being more sensitive than average can certainly be a turnoff unless the woman is inexplicably drawn to you first for other reasons. If she's not sure about her attraction to you -- or just considers you one of many options -- then pouring on the sweet stuff will likely drive her away. When I was single, I had a strong tendency to dive into a relationship rapport too early. Being more sensitive than average myself, I just felt much more comfortable in the relationship phase than in the meeting/attraction phase -- but that made it a LOT harder to attract women in the first place.
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I love sensitive and sweet men. That's exactly what I am looking for. Macho men make me want to I also think that most men dislike sweet and sensitive women. They prefer cold and bitchy ones. Yet I am not going to change and become that. 2
Woggle Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 In many cases it is. I look around me and I just can't deny the results but it doesn't get you any women worth having.
DarkNoel Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I think it really depends on the girl, and her previous experiences. I find that generally girls that have dealt with the "insensitive jerk" types before tend to warm up more to a sweet and caring guy. Some have told me that they find it very refreshing. Of course, like others said, you can't be a complete pushover. You've gotta show the girl that you truly care about her, like listening to what she has to say, giving her your full attention when you are out with her, etc. But don't go overboard by being too available or bringing flowers to first dates. Try to live your own life, have your own goals, and be mysterious! In most cases, try to show that your life is FINE without her, but is even BETTER with her in it. 1
regine_phalange Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I adore sweet, sensitive and dignified gentlemen. Some men think they are sensitive because they cry in movies or because they confess their poetic love to women. No, this doesn't make them sensitive. This makes them only superficially sensitive. Sometimes they even tell women "you know, I'm very sensitive". And in the first big fight they will call their woman nasty names, because they are "oh so emotional". Neeeeext. Sensitive men on the other hand, will do anything in order not to hurt you, because causing pain burdens them. 1
slightly_unusual Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Im not sure I know what constitutes " being sweet and sensitive " the girl im currently seeing told me " I make her feel really special " while we were in bed the other night this was after I told her she was a beautiful sensual woman I also told her I wanted her in my life and that I was glad to have met her now I haven't told that to a woman in a long time , this woman just brings it out in me I hope the words which naturally come out don't put her off as im pretty useless at faking things
Kate9292 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Im not sure I know what constitutes " being sweet and sensitive " the girl im currently seeing told me " I make her feel really special " while we were in bed the other night this was after I told her she was a beautiful sensual woman I also told her I wanted her in my life and that I was glad to have met her now I haven't told that to a woman in a long time , this woman just brings it out in me I hope the words which naturally come out don't put her off as im pretty useless at faking things Are you and your gf open to threesomes? J/k.
slightly_unusual Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Are you and your gf open to threesomes? J/k. do you ask that question to all the guys on this site
Maxtor Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 In what world is respect a bad thing? It amazes me that people actually believe guys who treat women poorly get decent women. Err, decent women is a rare type of women.
Kate9292 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 do you ask that question to all the guys on this site A truly sensitive guy would never said that. You just proved your fake.
Badsingularity Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I also think that most men dislike sweet and sensitive women. They prefer cold and bitchy ones. I would have to strongly disagree. OP There is nothing wrong with having a sweet and sensitve side, but you also have to develope a strong tough side if you want to do well with women.
ascendotum Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 In many cases it is. I look around me and I just can't deny the results but it doesn't get you any women worth having. This is yes & no for me in terms of guys who treat women poorly and getting decent women. I'd say for women in their 20s it applies less so. It works well on the woohoo party skanky girls just as well for the sweet girl next door types, as well as cute & devoted but screwed up emotionally girls. Quite a number of the women on here have been with these guys when they were younger, but like to consider themselves more savvy and a good catch now. Women as they get to mid-late 20s wise up, and the lower quality ones tend to be what such guys get. If the girls are still attractive but damaged emotionally or have issues it still suits the insensitive jerks fine, otherwise they would wise up and change or...move on and get another new prospect for a while. As for being too sensitive, in my observations it depends on the woman and how much she is into the alpha/need a big strong take charge man and also how masculine the guy this. I found a number of times when 'nice guy' types are too sensitive it turns women off. Also when women have stoic big lunk of a guy types for a bf and he does something sensitive they really gush over it and love him more. I think the more macho the guy is, the more he can get away with showing sensitivity at times without it hurting his image in the eyes of a woman, whereas the less masculine guys can't really afford to do that to the same extent. 1
Imported Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 By sensitive i don't mean crying over a broken nail,i mean being sweet and treat women with the respect they deserve,i know a lot of women prefer the macho type of men, but i cant just change who i am,and i will keep being the sweet guy i am till i die. I am just a guy. I don't think I am "sensitive" or "macho". I don't think what you discribe is sensitive. Being nice and respectiful is not really being sensitive. To me, a sensitive person is someone that is....sensitive to a lot of different things that most "non-sensitive"....(we'll call this "normal" here on) people would not bat an eyelash at. But that's just me. I can be sweet. To a girl. That I like. But I am not generally sweet. With a girl (and actually most people in general), I am always nice and respectful. On a date, I take care of her, she is priority. She is not just another person. When I talk to a girl, what is on my mind is to get her to smile. A real smile. For her to be happy that she is here. You're not going to go wrong by being a nice, respectful and caring person.
Thegreatestthing Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Want to sleep with macho lofty one. Want to go out/be with the sweet one. That's how it's usually goes for me,but not always.i definitely prefer sweet,shy,awkward. By sensitive i don't mean crying over a broken nail,i mean being sweet and treat women with the respect they deserve,i know a lot of women prefer the macho type of men, but i cant just change who i am,and i will keep being the sweet guy i am till i die.
Badsingularity Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Want to sleep with macho lofty one. Want to go out/be with the sweet one. There ya go. Aquire both types of characteristics (not easy) and you will be set.
slightly_unusual Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 A truly sensitive guy would never said that. You just proved your fake. well you wouldn't want to share a fake I imagine
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