Do you go on dates just for the sake of dating and free meals?

[shybutnotshy]

It's good that you changed your mind. No one needs to be insulted and played that way.

 

What do you mean?

 

I never insulted him or played him.

 

On the contrary, the disagreement that I mentioned before, happened because he insulted me.

[Arieswoman]

shybutnotshy,

 

you asked

 

If you know you will not pursue a relationship with a guy/girl, would you still go on dates with that person?

 

No - that's tacky.

 

And more importantly, why would you waste your time (and theirs) when you could be doing something more productive with your life?

[todreaminblue]

I wouldnt go on the date had a similar situation a while ago where a guy asked me out besides the fact5 i am seeing someone which i told him i asked him if he would liek to talk to a single friend of mine.....he said yes he would......i think he appreciated the honesty when i told him the truth why i couldnt continue talking to him .........deb

[shybutnotshy]

shybutnotshy,

 

you asked

 

 

 

No - that's tacky.

 

And more importantly, why would you waste your time (and theirs) when you could be doing something more productive with your life?

 

That's how I have always approaching dating. If I don't like you from the get go and know we will never be an item, there is no point in wasting their time and mine.

 

Another question: Is it okay to propose that we go Dutch on a date? My guy wants to take me out for dinner, but I know that his pocket gets tight whenever he makes payment towards his student loans. I'm wondering if we could go Dutch when he takes me to that special restaurant he's always wanted to.

Edited March 31, 2014 by shybutnotshy