littleraindrops Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 My bf gave me Christmas present and it turns out he went with his ex (now a close friend) to get help. His ex and I know each other, although we haven't officially met. And there has been some minor issues with... (I guess) my jealousy due to miscommunication. Well, it was more like my bf being a little bit delusional about his ex; believing that she still had feelings for him. He didn't tell me he went with her, although I thought maybe he would have, since they are pretty close. I found about this because I went through his phone (yeah, I know it's wrong, but ever since the "minor issue" thing, I haven't been completely been open with him maintaining the friendship with his ex. I mean, who am I to tell anyone to be friends with certain people or not? But then again, she is an ex, and I don't feel that comfortable). Anyways, although I'm glad he was able to make smart choice on the present, I am not 100% happy about the fact that he went with her. And really, what was she doing there picking out her ex's new gf? I just feel a little bit weirded out. Am I over-thinking this?
EmilyJane Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I don't think so. I'd be royally pissed off if he couldn't pick out a present for me on his own and got his ex to help - WTF?!? Trust your gut. There may be nothing between them but he clearly has an emotional bond (even if plutonic) with another woman. You should be his primary female relationship, I don't think this is ever going to make you feel secure while they are still so close.
aussietigerwolf Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 That wouldn't be ok with me either...
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