Buttercupuk Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Hi well I've been going with this guy for about 4/5 weeks but only really seen each other 5-6 times. I don't want a friend with benefits and be says he's doesn't either. He gives me mixed messages and I don't really no what to think. He says we click and that he wants me to stay with him and not go with other men, then the next breath he says if you want to date would you see me aswell. Then sends me messages saying don't fall in love with me, then he says if I'm honest I could fall in love with you. I haven't a clue what to think. I like him but don't want it to just be sex. He said something yesterday about testing the water. Can't remember what he said now. Am I wasting my time? Thanks in advance x
Philosoraptor Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 He sounds really insecure. "would you see me as well" just stood out to me as very unsure of himself. If you want a committed relationship then have a conversation about that with him. That way you'll have your answer and either have a commitment or at least you'll know what you're dealing with.
Author Buttercupuk Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 Hi, thanks for your reply. Yeah am not sure whether he's insecure or not. I have said to him that I don't wanna date other men while with him and don't want just sex, but just says stuff like above. Men are confusing at times lol I don't wanna sound too clingy either. Ahhhh well I'm Sure il know one day ha ha xx
Author Buttercupuk Posted January 1, 2014 Author Posted January 1, 2014 Well I went and asked him, in a text lol I asked if we should stop meeting and he said no, but if I wanted too that's up to me. So I said I don't but not sure if we want the same things etc. He asked me what I wanted and then he said he'd been hurt in the past a few times and was scared of getting close to someone else but wants the same as I do so tis all good now. xx
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