I kissed my ex-boyfriend, he wants to cut all ties, now I'm really sad :(?

[jennykim1231]

My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. He broke up with me saying that our relationship wasn't God-centered enough. At the time he suggested we were being too intimate and he still had feelings for me, but didn't want to go too far.

 

We started hanging out again about 1 month ago as friends. Then, I started avoiding him because I still had feelings and I wasn't sure if he felt the same way, especially since I saw him with other girls around campus. He texted me about a week later asking if I wanted to hang out. I said sure, and he picked me up and drove me to get sushi. The whole time, he was flirting, saying I looked nice and he paid for me (something he hasn't done since we broke up). I knew that he possibly wanted to get back together, but I didn't want to discuss it that night because I had to study for a midterm, and I didn't know how long the conversation would take. The next day, I texted him, asking if he wanted to grab dinner, he said sure. This time his demeanor was completely different, he wasn't flirting anymore, which confused me because he was flirting the night before. I asked him if he still had feelings, he said a little, and I said I did, too, but he said we couldn't get back together because of the previous issues we had when we broke up. He drove me back to my apartment and said we should talk. We were sitting in his car and I reached for his hand which he grabbed and then I leaned on his shoulder and after a while, I kissed him and we made out a little bit. Then, we went inside the study room in my apartment complex to "talk," which is where we used to go to be intimate.

 

We ended up making out and he was feeling me up and took off my shirt and humping me from behind. I could tell he was horny. After a while, we stopped and he said "Why am I so weak" and looked like he was about to cry.

 

The next day, he drove over and told me he wants to cut all ties, because he wants a God-centered relationship and we wouldn't have one. Why do you think he would be intimate with me and not want to get back together? I did initiate the intimacy, but he let it escalate till we were practically dry humping. Thoughts??

[kassy]

He was horny... Look he doesn't want a relationship with you. Do yourself a Favour and believ him. He has broken up with your twice... Accept it

 

I think cutting all ties is good.

 

Find someone who wants to date you.

 

Let him find a god centered relationship with someone else (I don't even know what that is, but it's clearly not whatever you two had)

[MsKenji]

This is what agitates me about some guys. They pursue, pursue, and pursue you. Finally get intimate with you and then randomly develop some type of morals on sex. He is experiencing religious guilt. He understands that his God smiles on sex once married but he's a young college man who at times totally forgets about God and succumbs to his primal desires. That's why it's important for us girls to hold out!! Lol. Leave this guy alone. He may be nice but at this time he just doesn't know how to balance his desires with his devotion to God. Like he said he is weak.