Cogee Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 About 11 months ago I came to this forum looking for help as I was dumped for someone else. I didn't understand anything and truthfully it was extremely difficult for me to move on without knowing what was happening. Over time I got bits and pieces of information and learned that my ex was getting married not even 2 months after leaving me. I was absolutely shocked. I got over her by focusing on myself and removing every single trace of her from my life. Recently I learned from a mutual friend that my ex gave birth to a baby 9 months after leaving me. I wasn't surprised by this news and in fact it all made sense. What was originally such a puzzle to me is now crystal clear. 11 months later I am now engaged to the person I truly love and I am so happy that my ex left me or I would never have met her. Work hard on yourself and you too will be happier. 8
whiteknighted Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 Recently I learned from a mutual friend that my ex gave birth to a baby 9 months after leaving me. Um... is there a chance the baby could be yours?! 3
Author Cogee Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 Um... is there a chance the baby could be yours?! Last had sex with her 2 months before it ended. She had her baby about 9 months after we ended. Very unlikely to be mine.
chris21422 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 wew. that's really fast for her.. How long you guys been together? and what's the reason of break up?
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Everything happens for a reason even if it doesnt seem like it at the time x Ive also found someone else (I never thought I would) and I do sometimes question why I cried so many tears over him! If I had have known then what I know now... x 2
nerdlingZA Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Last had sex with her 2 months before it ended. She had her baby about 9 months after we ended. Very unlikely to be mine. The same thing happend to my friend , but his situation was more bizarre cos his GF fall pregnant by a another man while dating him(my friend) , its happens a lot in todays society , I've always expect my Ex to fall preg anytime after the break up. Its a good thing that you've NOO hope now.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 About 11 months ago I came to this forum looking for help as I was dumped for someone else. I didn't understand anything and truthfully it was extremely difficult for me to move on without knowing what was happening. Over time I got bits and pieces of information and learned that my ex was getting married not even 2 months after leaving me. I was absolutely shocked. I got over her by focusing on myself and removing every single trace of her from my life. Recently I learned from a mutual friend that my ex gave birth to a baby 9 months after leaving me. I wasn't surprised by this news and in fact it all made sense. What was originally such a puzzle to me is now crystal clear. 11 months later I am now engaged to the person I truly love and I am so happy that my ex left me or I would never have met her. Work hard on yourself and you too will be happier. Congrats on moving past the ex. Thats awesome. 11 months later engaged? Wow....thats pretty...sudden... Well, good luck to you man. 1
Author Cogee Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 Congrats on moving past the ex. Thats awesome. 11 months later engaged? Wow....thats pretty...sudden... Well, good luck to you man. I think it's true that if two people are right for each other it will be apparent very fast. I met my Fiancee about 7 months ago and she is everything I have ever wanted. She is absolutely a dream come true and she feels exactly the same way about me. We are also well established and know exactly what we want. A week ago I proposed and she said yes without any hesitation. It will be a while until we can officially tie the knot (maybe 1-2 years) due to other complications but I have no doubt in my mind that she is the one for me. Reason ex left me was she didn't love me anymore. At that time I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. She got engaged about 1 month later and married about 2 months later. Had a baby 9 months later. We were together roughly 1.5 years.
lil hoodlum Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Congratulations on your engagement Cogee! I am also happy for you to have finally found out the "real" reasons for the breakup. Some people never find out the "real" reasons for a break up. It is a shame that some ex's can't find the courage to be honest.
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