Boyfriend Has Not Called Back Since The 26th Of December

[opentonewadvice]

WELL I REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE GUYS..... HERE IS DEAL, I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR FOR JUST ABOUT SEVEN YEARS. WE HAVE BEEN HAVING ISSUES HERE IN THERE LIKE ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH ATTITUDES FLYING. IAM NOT GOING TO LIE I HAD BEEN GETTING A LITTLE FRUSTRATED WITH HIM BUT I WAS STILL TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT ESPECIALLY SINCE WE HAVE A KID TOGETHER.

 

WE BROKE APART TWICE SINCE WE HAVE BEEN IN OUR RELATIONSHIP BUT ALWAYS TRIED BACK TO MAKE THINGS WORK. SIX MONTHS BEFORE THIS SITUATION WE BROKE UP FOR TWO WEEKS, BECAUSE HE WAS INSECURE OF WHAT I WAS DOING AND HE MESSED WITH ANOTHER GIRL. bUT WE GOT BACK TOGETHER ONLY BECAUSE I KNOW HE DID THAT OUT OF ATTENTION AND HE ONLY TALK WITH HER FOR A WEEK AND I TALKED TO THE GIRL AND WE ALL COMMUNICATED AND HE LET HER KNEW IN FRONT OF ME, THINGS WITH THEM WOULD NOT GO ANY FARTHER BECAUSE HIS FEELINGS WAS STILL FOR ME SO HE COULD NOT CONTINUE WITH HER SO BASICALLY THINGS GOT ENDED.

 

SO THEN WE WERE DOING OK EVERYTHING GOING COOL UNTIL THIS POINT NOW THAT MAKES ME HAVE CONCERNS BECAUSE ONCE AGAIN IAM NOT GOING TO LIE THINGS STARTED GETTING FUSED AGAIN DIS AGREEMENTS ARGUMENTS, AND THEN COMES THE HOLIDAYS HE GOT MAD BECAUSE I DID NOT SPEND THEM WITH HIM AND I KNOW THAT WAS PROIBABLY WRONG BUT I HAD FAMILY DOWN AND HE HAD TO WORK SO I GOT CAUGHT UP. bUT I STILL FEEL THAT IS NNO REASON TO STOP CALLING AS LONG AS WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER AND HE JUST STOPPED CALLING ME AFTER THE 26TH OF DECEMBER AND I HAVE NOT HEARD FROM HIM SINCE NOT EVEN TO CHECK ON HIS DAUGHTER OR EXCHANGE THE GIFTS HE HAS WITH HER.

 

i CAN UNDERSTAND HIM BEIMNG MAD FOR A LITTLE WHILE BECAUSE OF THE SITUATION BUT I FEEL NOT SAYING ANYTHING TO ME THIS LONG IS JUST GOING WAY OVER BOARD. PLEASE SOMEONE OUT THERE HELP!!! I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO THINK WHETHER HE HAS FOUND SOMEONE ELSE, MAYBE TALKING BACK TO THE OLD GIRL. OR JUST WANT THINGS TO BE OVER?

[tiki]

Caps lock OFF, it'd be so much easier to read.

 

Have you attempted to contact him? Has he failed to return contact? Did you guys live together? If he's not going to be around, he needs to be paying Child Support.

[opentonewadvice]

Thanks for the advice tiki. And yes i did try calling him but i was not that friendly in the message i just let him knew i felt that it was childish not to call back or get mad over something so petty and that he should get over it and call me so that him and his daughter could exchange there late christmas gifts.

 

I also let him knew it was up to him whether he wanted to call and get over it or call it quits. But like i said he never called back and said anything. But i feel like atleast he could have been man enough to say something or atleast just have said hey it is over. And no we did not live together i would just be at his place alot. But as i said before i do not know what to think iam basically at a lost for words just in need of advice.

[hugznkisses21]

why after seven years he could not be somewhat a part of your christmas.....and if he was working u should have been able to find time to spend with him. I would have been hurt if after seven years my bf abandonded me at Xmas. But I do agree he should be making an effort here for his daughter.