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experiencethedevine Established Member

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Experienced, what you have posted for your location is clever! Smiling here!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Then you are evidently close at hand. Good morning to you!

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Then you are evidently close at hand. Good morning to you!

 

ha! Yep, I know where you both are now :D

 

I am a bit further north up but not too far.

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ha! Yep, I know where you both are now :D

 

I am a bit further north up but not too far.

 

 

 

 

How uncanny! We should term ourselves the three 'muppeteers'!? The three 'puppeteers'!? The three 'wonderouspeers'!?...........

 

 

 

 

Oh do help me out here girls please!....................

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I had 2 ddays: the first 4 years ago when he had an EA with the bimbo I have been talking about. Then I decided to R or so I thought.

 

 

The second time was almost a year ago when I found out he had sent a gift to a woman in another state that I knew he was writing to for some time ( nothing inappropriate)I checked recent emails and I realized this "friendship" was starting to change.... I confronted and told him this was his last chance. There will be no third strike as far as I am concerned. I also gave him to sign

a piece of paper stating the terms of my boundaries and the dealbreakers. He was not happy but I did not give a damn about his feelings ( I still don't)

He has been a "good boy" since then and I am keeping a close eye on him.

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How did he take the news of your A? Did it fix him straight?

 

Not well at all and I wasn't expecting him to. He left me for a week still denying his A was PA (at that time lol). Not sure if it fixed him straight, but I would imagine he now understands the pain and destruction these A's can cause.

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Hi, I mean when all the excitement and the thrill of it is still going on. They were cake eating and enjoying it. Does that cause more d-days? They don't want it to end yet. Your husband and mine were over it. It was no longer an escape but a burden for them so only one d-day.

 

My husband had an lta....over 4 years, and he had ended it a couple times without a dday. When I discovered the A, he had ended it for the past time prior to me finding out. She tried to lie to me and tell me that she broke up with him because he missed her deadline to leave me...but I actually had the texts between them showing he had ended it with her and she was pissed about it. She had much to say...and she tried to lie to lie to me and tell me all kinds of crazy...actually it was a good thing I had the texts or I may have believed her lies, which would have left me with no choice but divorce...

 

One dday. If there is ever another, there will no longer be a marriage.

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My husband had an lta....over 4 years, and he had ended it a couple times without a dday. When I discovered the A, he had ended it for the past time prior to me finding out. She tried to lie to me and tell me that she broke up with him because he missed her deadline to leave me...but I actually had the texts between them showing he had ended it with her and she was pissed about it. She had much to say...and she tried to lie to lie to me and tell me all kinds of crazy...actually it was a good thing I had the texts or I may have believed her lies, which would have left me with no choice but divorce...

 

One dday. If there is ever another, there will no longer be a marriage.

 

 

 

The lies are designed to make you so angry and disillusioned with your husband that you will throw him out and she can have him.

 

 

The other woman rarely 'get's it', that in such a case if that were to happen, not only is he most unlikely to run to her, but even if he did, what does that say about her???

 

 

A grand way to establish a wonderful relationship, no?

 

 

You were indeed fortunate to have the evidence of her falsifications, I was less so, but firm in my resolve none the less.

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When I joined here, there was an OW who had had 19 DDays !!!

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When I joined here, there was an OW who had had 19 DDays !!!

 

 

 

Oh my!.................

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