JOkER2 Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 My girlfriend cancelled on me 3 hrs b4 a date, no apology , no reason, no let's do it another time, so I assumed it was over. I didn't text her anything for a week, I see her at work and she asks if I'm mad at her I said no I'm cool. She says well u haven't text me anything ( she never sent me anything either in that week) so I said what is that bad, she just walked away after that, so it seemed she was dissapointed. During work we got along like always, we had a good time. She left work, gave me a hug. Then I tell her the reason I didn't text anything is because u kinda blew me off and she responds ya id b mad at that too. Then asks me are we still cool? Is that a way of asking are we still dating?
Sand Man Dan Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 You guys aren't dating. Trust me. You are definitely not her first option. If that's okay with you, keep at it buddy. If you demand the utmost out of your partner, as I do, then you break contact with her and begin emotionally distancing yourself immediately.
GemmaUK Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 It might be. It sort of sounds more like neither of you are terribly interested in each other or both ended up sulking - you over not knowing why she cancelled and her over you not appearing to her to be interested as to why she cancelled. Both things could have been sorted out through either by her explaining or you asking probably - at the time when it happened, not a week later. If you are boyfriend and girlfriend why are you not communicating with each other?
Gottabestrong Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 How long have you been boyfriend/girlfriend and it is normal for you to go a week or longer without contact? I agree with Gemma about how this could/should have been sorted out a week ago with a little communication.
Sand Man Dan Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 The interest level is just really low on both ends it seems. But it was her responsibility to explain to you why she cancelled. Instead she doesn't even bother to talk for a week to him after. That's disrespect. You don't need that
Author JOkER2 Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 After our discussion. When she asked are we still cool and I said ya, she hasn't sent me anything, neither have I. It's been 2 days
what_a_blonde Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 After our discussion. When she asked are we still cool and I said ya, she hasn't sent me anything, neither have I. It's been 2 days Cool, sounds like you have your answer. You guys are not dating. Not talking for two days? Nope. Not bf/gf.
furby19 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 Cool, sounds like you have your answer. You guys are not dating. Not talking for two days? Nope. Not bf/gf. You are right......OP, keep it moving. It sounds like you both are playing games. She is definitely not into you. She said what she said at work because she knew she had to say something in order to make things not seem awkward.
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