lostgirl99 Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 i found out 6 mts ago that my partner of 11 yrs was cheating on me and not for the first time, when i asked him about it he confessed we didnt break up but things where hard and we decided for my sons sake to go on the holiday we had planed months before but he hadnt stopped seeing the other women so we sayed that the day we came home from holiday he would move out . on the flight home we both just cryed and cryed he left and moved in with HER . after that he called to my house every day and night called me and texted me all the time untill on my birthday he turned up with his bags and said he was back but then said he was not sure what he wanted and went home to his country for 2 weeks ,called me and skyped me everyday for the first week then just stopped . when he got back i found out that the other women had joined him there for the last week so i finaly got mad and hit him he broke down and asked me to take him back again and again i did he told me it was over with the other women but again it wasnt . it had never stopped , after 2 weeks he moved into his mums that is in the same street as i live . he still came to see me all the time but was still lying about seeing HER so i ended it just before christmas and then i decided to tell the other women what had been going on so i texted her . he got mad at me and now he wont speak to me .I know im better of with out him but i cant stop how i feel about him it hurts so much but why should he be the one to be happy and not me?
evagisele Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 I'm sorry you're hurting, lostgirl99. These things just take time to heal. It sounds cliche and you've probably heard this advice before, but you have to be kind to yourself now. Do things for yourself that increase your confidence, though don't resort to vengeance against him. Don't give him the power to produce that kind of reaction. Take care of yourself.
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