python23 Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 Hello all I hope you've all had a great Christmas. I need some help. I've been single for 6 months now and it's been awful. I got messed about and walked all over by my ex girl friend and life's been tough. But I'm slowly getting used to the fact that now I can date who ever I want and that's a good feeling. Last night I was out a house gathering at my friends apartment. Nothing messy, parents invited and close friends. Was a very good night. A girl from school came with her parents who I've hardly seen for years. She's 23, always a very quiet girl and shy. She was never really a looker as she was over weight at school but was always a really nice girl, but now she's stunning. I got talking to her pretty early on and this girl seems to be perfect, so sweet and friendly. ( and hot) We got talking about school, uni, her travelling and we came back to each other a few times during the night. Me and my friends left and I said my good byes. I had earlier found out she's been single since September. I've had this girl on Facebook for years but have never really spoken much and I don't have her number, but I'd really love to take her out on a date. We were talking to another friend about a restaurant she really liked but had never been to. So could I somehow bring that In conversation? What's the best way to approach this and what do I say? I should have asked last night for her number but really don't have much confidence in that department. Any help would be appreciated.
GemmaUK Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 Just send her a mail asking for her number and that you would like to take her out on a date..coffee or dinner maybe at the place you talked about. Don't wait, just do it. Just one mail though and don't mail her a second time if you know she has been online and posting new statuses but hasn't replied to you.
Sand Man Dan Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 Hello all I hope you've all had a great Christmas. I need some help. I've been single for 6 months now and it's been awful. I got messed about and walked all over by my ex girl friend and life's been tough. But I'm slowly getting used to the fact that now I can date who ever I want and that's a good feeling. Last night I was out a house gathering at my friends apartment. Nothing messy, parents invited and close friends. Was a very good night. A girl from school came with her parents who I've hardly seen for years. She's 23, always a very quiet girl and shy. She was never really a looker as she was over weight at school but was always a really nice girl, but now she's stunning. I got talking to her pretty early on and this girl seems to be perfect, so sweet and friendly. ( and hot) We got talking about school, uni, her travelling and we came back to each other a few times during the night. Me and my friends left and I said my good byes. I had earlier found out she's been single since September. I've had this girl on Facebook for years but have never really spoken much and I don't have her number, but I'd really love to take her out on a date. We were talking to another friend about a restaurant she really liked but had never been to. So could I somehow bring that In conversation? What's the best way to approach this and what do I say? I should have asked last night for her number but really don't have much confidence in that department. Any help would be appreciated. Asking for her number under the guise of lightheartedly "catching up" (although this is pretty much what you will be doing anyways when you two meet up) would have been a good move but it's ok you didn't flub yet Hit her up on Facebook, make no small talk. Tell her it was cool seeing her again and mention how much she's changed. Then say we should catch up, if she agrees then ask for her number, anything less than a hands down "yes!" And you need to forget it probably. 1
Author python23 Posted December 29, 2013 Author Posted December 29, 2013 Thanks. Il leave it till this afternoon. It's only 13:00 here.
GemmaUK Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 Just one thing...say she looks great rather than say how much she has changed.. Knowing women (cos I am one)..and young ones (cos I was one) she might have the 'so he didn't like me when....' flash through her mind. The past is the past and aside from memories you both have about it you don't need to say anything about how her looks have changed. Also agree - you're not useless. 1
Author python23 Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 So I asked her if she enjoyed last night, she got back to me about 2 hours later, saying yes very much and asked if I did An hour later I replied with yes I did thanks it was a welcome change. Would you like to meet up for a drink or a bite to eat one evening? She "read" the message a couple of hours later but never replied. I'm going to say she doesn't know how to say no so il just take it as a no. Oh well onwards and upwards
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