Lizzay03 Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 I talked to this guy for a while before we dated then we did and only went out for almost two months but we had a great relationship and we broke up because of something very stupid, he ignored me for a month then came back and told me how sorry he was for everything and that he was still in love with me and wanted to be with me without a title we talked for 3 months but didn't see each other then out of nowhere I found out he was talking to another girl he dated her and they broke up, he came back to me again and apologized for everything took me on a date and around his family and we talked about our relationship and he told me he had missed me and I was the best thing he ever had then 3 days later I found out he went back to the girl and is with her right now... what do you guys think about this?
LadyM Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 He is not honest and not as interested in you as you'd like him to be. He's not worth your time. You can do much better. Go find yourself a guy who will see and appreciate all your wonderful qualities and be as loyal to you as you are to him. 1
headinthecloud Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 He's playing you and likely would cheat on you in the future. He doesn't respect you. I'd move on without thinking twice about it.
devilish innocent Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 He was never committed to you to begin with. Just look at all the red flags: Red flag #1-Allows the relationship to break-up over something stupid Red flag #2-Claims he's still in love with you, yet won't offer any type of a title Red flag #3- Won't see you for three months when you're supposed to be together Red flag #4- He was lying to you all along about another girl Red flag #5- Breaks up with you just after three days of getting back together and claiming you're the best thing ever Any one of these on their own should have been a good enough reason to end it with him. Let alone all five. Don't be surprised if it's not the last time he wants to get back together with you. What you see is what you get with people, though. If he returns, it will only be to do the same things, no matter what sweet words he uses or what he claims. If he can't commit to the most basic relationship by now, then he won't ever be able to. The other girl is going to have similar issues with him as well. If you're lucky, then you won't have to deal with him anymore. But if he does try to come back into your life, you can be strong and wise enough to turn him away.
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