FineFreshFierce Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 (edited) A guy that I've been on a few dates with still actively goes on the dating site we met on. Not to sound cocky, but I think I'm the best he's going to find (I have logical reasons why but I'm not going to mention them for the sake of brevity). After our first couple of dates he posted a picture the day after of him on a date with another girl. Then he put up an old picture of him and a girl from summer. I knew we weren't official, and I didn't want to seem jealous/crazy so I still agreed to our next date. Also, I kind of got the feeling he put those pictures up because he knew I would see them. Since we've been getting closer, he hasn't put up anymore pictures with girls. But I know he still goes on the dating site and talks to/adds girls. From his behavior, I THINK he wants to ultimately be with me but he still likes looking for hookups and chatting with girls bc he's bored. I know they're hookups because he's leaving in a few days and all the girls he's been adding live on the other side of the country. Yet I did notice that he deleted all of the girls that things could potentially get serious with (girls that live in our town). Anyway, I don't like the fact that he still goes on the site since he said he's not looking for anyone on there anymore. I didn't confront him about this, but I've been kind of pulling back by not texting him as much. I set up a date in a couple of days with an old flame who just got back in town. He's tall, good looking and successful. So I'm wondering whether I should post a picture of our date, mainly because I know the other guy will see it and I want him to get the message. At the same time, I don't want him to think I've completely lost interest and move on from me. Thoughts? Edited December 29, 2013 by FineFreshFierce
Ok Good Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 first, i love your user name! absolutely, just post the pic! What's the worst that can happen?
Author FineFreshFierce Posted December 29, 2013 Author Posted December 29, 2013 Aww thanks! It's from a Katy Perry song And the worst that could happen is that he thinks I've moved on and am no longer interested in him. So he moves on to :/ But at the same time I want him to see that there are other guys I'm taking to & he could lose me.
Ok Good Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 I want him to see that there are other guys I'm taking to & he could lose me. see, the thing is, he already knows this... you gotta do what is best for YOU 1
Eggplant Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 If you post the pictures, he'll know exactly why, since he does it himself. I say actually just date other people. You don't need to advertise it.
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