jinandjuice Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Just had a curious question for the ladies. So if a man were interested and liked you, took you on 2 dates and confessed that he had feelings for you and liked you (NOT LOVE), would that give all his power to you? What if you were feeling unsure and you went on these dates and he told you these things, how would you respond? Is there a time frame where you can't or shouldn't tell someone you like them? For me the earlier you tell them you like a girl more than a friend, the better chance you have of not entering the friend zone.
Cinnimon Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 I don't think it's a problem for her if she likes you too. It may be a problem if she isn't into you. I don't see a problem in telling someone you like them as long as you don't have any expectations for them to feel the same way. Hope yes, expectations no.
Author jinandjuice Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 I don't think it's a problem for her if she likes you too. It may be a problem if she isn't into you. I don't see a problem in telling someone you like them as long as you don't have any expectations for them to feel the same way. Hope yes, expectations no. Does it give your power away to them? Can "feelings" develop into liking over time?
Cinnimon Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Does it give your power away to them? Can "feelings" develop into liking over time? What power are you worried about her having? What exactly is it that your worried about when you ask if your giving her power?
Eau Claire Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Just had a curious question for the ladies. So if a man were interested and liked you, took you on 2 dates and confessed that he had feelings for you and liked you (NOT LOVE), would that give all his power to you? What if you were feeling unsure and you went on these dates and he told you these things, how would you respond? Is there a time frame where you can't or shouldn't tell someone you like them? For me the earlier you tell them you like a girl more than a friend, the better chance you have of not entering the friend zone. No. No time frame. We woman want to be made to feel special. It's best to state how much you enjoy being with her. The Friend Zone thing is largely a concoction used as an excuse for alack of chemistry. Women don't want to be thought of as 'easy'...we want to be won over. If she has feelings she will eventually express them. Let her enjoy your time together. We tend to fall in love completely. All or nothing. That can take time. Woman tend to be monogamous and invest a lot of themselves in a relationship.
Cinnimon Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Does it give your power away to them? Can "feelings" develop into liking over time? Yes feelings can develop in time assuming that they are there to start with, I doubt that they will magically appear in time if they were never there to start with. Are you saying , she doesn't like you?
Author jinandjuice Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 Yes feelings can develop in time assuming that they are there to start with, I doubt that they will magically appear in time if they were never there to start with. Are you saying , she doesn't like you? After we made out, been on numerous dates, dry sex, sleep overs, cuddle, hold hands, take care of each other. She tells me her feelings over time had gotten much stronger since she has gotten to know me however she doesn't know if she likes me or not. She is a very insecure girl, been hurt in the past. Her actions indicate that she likes me but she can't say it.
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