moving2fast Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Hello Everyone, I am writing to ask what others would do in my shoes. I am seeing a really great guy, though for a few reasons (our backgrounds, ages, and expectations for starters). We spent nearly everyday together, but since I had to do some filming yesterday and am not really the best person to be around after all of that he has only called once this morning and I am too stubborn to ask to see him. I think he was disappointed in me. I know that our relationship wouldn't really last, so I guess its ending but I don't want it to. I don't know what to say to show him that this all means something to me and even if I did it probably doesn't mean much to him. He already said he loves me, but that's just a word. I think he's done with me and I don't want that. What should I do?
sarbunoemi Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Tell him your concern and ask his opinion about you. Don't hide your feelings, a relationship is based on communication, to express your needs, your feelings of each other etc. If your doubts raise, then ask him to hang out with you and pay attention to his body language.
Author moving2fast Posted December 29, 2013 Author Posted December 29, 2013 I've called him and asked to see him, but he says he needs some time to clear his head because I really upset him yesterday. I told him I was sorry, but he doesn't seem to want to hear it and if he stays upset for long, I will end up doing more harm.
Eggplant Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 Would you elaborate on why he's upset? I don't understand.
vanhalenfan Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 I don't really understand what he's upset about, because you couldn't see him for one day? That doesn't really seem like the basis of a healthy relationship...Maybe I'm missing something here.
mortensorchid Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 Think more information is in order here...
Author moving2fast Posted December 29, 2013 Author Posted December 29, 2013 Sorry about not being so clear in my original post. He is upset about me working on Friday (shooting for an adult film)and because when I was home and he did see me I was not really myself, coming down from work and such. I don't know if I said anything rude, just was a bit out of it so when I insisted we have sex it may have rubbed him wrong or maybe I did something offensive during. He usually would come see me whenever free, but he wouldn't yesterday and today all I got was a call asking how I was feeling and if I was doing anything today. I asked to see him, he said its not a good idea right now because he doesn't know how to approach things with me. So, I'm really feeling lonely again.
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