I'm not sure what I should do now?

[lilmiscassie92]

So I've been hooking up/seeing the same guy for the last 3 months. I feel as though I like him more than he likes me, and he's asked me to be his girlfriend a few times but he was very nonchalant about it; saying he doesn't know if it will work out or if he may even develop the same feelings for me but he was going to "give it a shot". I said no because that's not how I want to go into a relationship. We're both in college, 21, I have an apartment on campus and he just transferred over a year and a half ago, so he doesn't have a car and he's staying with his aunt. He would stay over, I'd drop him off either at his aunt's or the frat house. I feel a bit used and like I'm being stepped on. Now when he went back home for the holidays he found out his parents are getting a divorce and he was saying he didn't want to get into a relationship because he doesn't know if he will "have to" or "want to" break up with me in the future or have to get a divorce and doesn't want to put me through that. We have to work together next semester and in the fall - which is going to suck!! We ended the conversation last night with him saying he needed space tonight so I said alright. But I told him I wasn't going to stick around to be "casual" anymore and I wouldn't be around in a few months when he wants to start talking to me again -- last time he was iffy about getting into a relationship he was saying he had wished he had met me at a later date and wanted to pick things back up in a few months when he "matured". Should I just stop talking to him and ignore him if he tries to reach me and next semester just talk to him at work "if needed" and ignore any future texts?

[Lizzie8]

Sounds like he need time to find what to do and what he wants, that his parents are now under divorced process could be stressful for him so maybe just need time alone and clarify his feelings about you, give space and time be in touch just if is necessary