~Mike~ Posted January 24, 2001 Posted January 24, 2001 I was just wondering if anyone had advice on how to give my gal better oral. I want to please her totally and I've only done it to her a couple times and I'm guessing that I'm not that good at it. So, I would appreciate some advice or even websites with advice. Thanks.
Paulie Posted January 24, 2001 Posted January 24, 2001 I've cut and pasted my reply to an earlier question of this sort. Good luck! This is something you get better at with experience. Also, each woman is different...probably different to a greater extent than guy's are in this regard. But, in a general sense, not knowing your girl, I would suggest the following: 1. Start off kissing her thighs, talking dirty (if you guys are into that)...otherwise, just talk about how much you want to be with her, etc...whatever turns her on. 2. Tease her by gliding over the genital area, but you're just passing through...back to kissing her thighs. 3. After a few minutes of this (and act like you're getting excited by doing all this)...go for the actual place...but not time for THE SPOT yet...tease, and lick around that area for a few minutes. Then, and make sure you have an adequate supply of water on hand (a dry tongue sucks)... 4. Go to THE SPOT...but don't ignore the rest of the genital area. When licking "the spot", lick from side to side, rapidly, up and down, see what she responds to best. Go "there, " and then go away fo 30 seconds or so, and then go back for a minute or so. 5. Experiment with fingering her...but don't use your finger on THE SPOT. Fingers are too rough, and it get's way too sensitive. 6. Make her feel that it's really important to you that you get her off. You REALLY want to get her off. That'll turn her on. 7. Listen to the rythms of her body...if she seems to like something, stick to it, but variation is key. Don't stick with any one motion for more than like...a minute. Again, these are general guidelines for you to follow befor you get to really know your woman. No advice can posibly trump true experience with and knowledge of your particular woman. Have fun! Paulie
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