krislvilla Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 My boyfriend is having a new years eve party more like his guys night. He told his friends I would be there, I guess not. He's been doing that lately, his friends bring their girlfriends over and when I come over I'm turned away at the door. Then the next day he says babe it was guys night and I spent the night messaging him before I go see what's he up to. He tries to make it up to me the next but rarely happens because he's too hungover. What should I tell him the next time he does that?
d0nnivain Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 The other guys GFs are allowed into the party & you're not? I'd get a new BF. 3
D_Gost Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 My boyfriend is having a new years eve party more like his guys night. He told his friends I would be there, I guess not. He's been doing that lately, his friends bring their girlfriends over and when I come over I'm turned away at the door. Then the next day he says babe it was guys night and I spent the night messaging him before I go see what's he up to. He tries to make it up to me the next but rarely happens because he's too hungover. What should I tell him the next time he does that? Odd. Do you guys spend all day, every day around one another...........? Does he use social events like this to have some 'alone' time?
writergal Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Whoa, time to get a new boyfriend! That's what your new year's goal should be. This guy sounds like a tool. 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Next time spend the day/night with someone else. I'm free for New Years, FYI... 2
Cinnimon Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Seriously honey, there should be no next time. Tell him goodbye! 1
Author krislvilla Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 We'll message each other, sometimes it will be days til I hear from him again due to him getting drunk the night of his day off from work. We see each other physically on average 2 the 3 days. If im lucky a whole week. One time it was 3 days since I've messaged him and my cousin told me he was with him all that time. Just left me in the dark. When we do see each other its like one full day and a couple half days. We plan to do things but he just wants to sleep in or hang out with his friends. I dug into his Facebook he was talking to his ex about hanging out together and he said he doesn't hang out with girls other than his cousin which I like. Should I confront him about it? If I get message from my ex I dont say hey we should hang out. I dont want to seem jealous and clingy. Any advice?
Author krislvilla Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 We'll message each other, sometimes it will be days til I hear from him again due to him getting drunk the night of his day off from work. We see each other physically on average 2 the 3 days. If im lucky a whole week. One time it was 3 days since I've messaged him and my cousin told me he was with him all that time. Just left me in the dark. When we do see each other its like one full day and a couple half days. We plan to do things but he just wants to sleep in or hang out with his friends. I dug into his Facebook he was talking to his ex about hanging out together and he said he doesn't hang out with girls other than his cousin which I like. Should I confront him about it? If I get message from my ex I dont say hey we should hang out. I dont want to seem jealous and clingy. Any advice?
Spiraldestroyer Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 My boyfriend is having a new years eve party more like his guys night. He told his friends I would be there, I guess not. He's been doing that lately, his friends bring their girlfriends over and when I come over I'm turned away at the door. Then the next day he says babe it was guys night and I spent the night messaging him before I go see what's he up to. He tries to make it up to me the next but rarely happens because he's too hungover. What should I tell him the next time he does that? First ask him why? If the reason he gives doesn't satisfy you just leave him~
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 We'll message each other, sometimes it will be days til I hear from him again due to him getting drunk the night of his day off from work. We see each other physically on average 2 the 3 days. If im lucky a whole week. One time it was 3 days since I've messaged him and my cousin told me he was with him all that time. Just left me in the dark. When we do see each other its like one full day and a couple half days. We plan to do things but he just wants to sleep in or hang out with his friends. I dug into his Facebook he was talking to his ex about hanging out together and he said he doesn't hang out with girls other than his cousin which I like. Should I confront him about it? If I get message from my ex I dont say hey we should hang out. I dont want to seem jealous and clingy. Any advice? It doesn't seem like a relationship that's making you very happy...
shinealight Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Well via the post it seems like you guys never really see eachover, and when you do try to hang out he just wants to hang out with his friends and cousin instead suggesting he doesn't want to hang out with you anymore :/ You don't seem very happy in the relationship atall i would talk to him about how you feel and how unhappy he is making you feel and if he cannot change what he is doing then tell him he will lose one lucky girl!
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