WP4046 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 the two responses i got were from women who ignored my request and wanted to get to know me like I had a dating profile. So this is what women do when a handsome guy request a intimate encounter? They try and change his mindset because they are attracted and acted like he never said it? It really irritated me because I was excited and thinking they were up for the intimate encounter only to find out they just decided to ignore what I was looking for. What was the point of that?
Mrlonelyone Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 the two responses i got were from women who ignored my request and wanted to get to know me like I had a dating profile. So this is what women do when a handsome guy request a intimate encounter? They try and change his mindset because they are attracted and acted like he never said it? It really irritated me because I was excited and thinking they were up for the intimate encounter only to find out they just decided to ignore what I was looking for. What was the point of that? Because taming/Fixing you would make them feel good.
d0nnivain Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Some people just don't read. It's part of the problem with OLD 2
Author WP4046 Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 Because taming/Fixing you would make them feel good. is that what it is? I was all excited at work thinking I would have some friday night fun only to find out they were not taking me seriously
FitChick Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 I thought craigslist was supposed to be good for one night stands.
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Whoa, so two women you actually might like messaged you once you put on your profile you wanted NSA sex? I have an idea... 2
RedRobin Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 is that what it is? I was all excited at work thinking I would have some friday night fun only to find out they were not taking me seriously Newsflash... just about all the men on OKC want an intimate encounter ASAP. Of course women don't take that seriously. We know that if you men like us, you'll keep coming around until we are ready... not when you are ready. Sowwwy! 1
Author WP4046 Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 Newsflash... just about all the men on OKC want an intimate encounter ASAP. Of course women don't take that seriously. We know that if you men like us, you'll keep coming around until we are ready... not when you are ready. Sowwwy! is that what they are doing to me?
Author WP4046 Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 Whoa, so two women you actually might like messaged you once you put on your profile you wanted NSA sex? I have an idea... yes and one of them turned out to be a fool because i suggested we talk on the phone tonight and she said she has not talked on the phone since she was a teenager. So I said "well let's set a day to meet up because i don't text when I'm home" She says....."I am not ready to meet this is my first time on here" And i told her to stop talking to me because i don't have time for games
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Newsflash... just about all the men on OKC want an intimate encounter ASAP. Of course women don't take that seriously. We know that if you men like us, you'll keep coming around until we are ready... not when you are ready. Sowwwy! I always just conclude that women don't like me. So if a woman isn't "ready" (whatever that means) I'll just go away and stew for a long time and think about how horrible I am at life. No, seriously. That's what I'd do.
RedRobin Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 is that what they are doing to me? I don't know. It's possible that their idea of an 'intimate encounter' is a picnic in the park. Like, literally, a picnic in the park... not NSA sex. This is another problem with OLD. Semantics and interpretation. Next time, just say in your profile 'Wanna f*ck?' I mean, it doesn't get any plainer than that... Of course, you just put down 'Casual Sex' in the 'looking for' box correct? If you put anything else down (ie friends, STR, LTR, etc) that can be misinterpreted.
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 yes and one of them turned out to be a fool because i suggested we talk on the phone tonight and she said she has not talked on the phone since she was a teenager. So I said "well let's set a day to meet up because i don't text when I'm home" She says....."I am not ready to meet this is my first time on here" And i told her to stop talking to me because i don't have time for games Um, why didn't you just try to hook up with her then? Would she have gone for it? I'm so trying this. Right now. I don't even want a hook up, but I'd like to get my first kiss before New Years, and this sounds like gold...
Author WP4046 Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 I don't know. It's possible that their idea of an 'intimate encounter' is a picnic in the park. Like, literally, a picnic in the park... not NSA sex. This is another problem with OLD. Semantics and interpretation. Next time, just say in your profile 'Wanna f*ck?' I mean, it doesn't get any plainer than that... Of course, you just put down 'Casual Sex' in the 'looking for' box correct? If you put anything else down (ie friends, STR, LTR, etc) that can be misinterpreted. at the bottom I put........"Only message me if you are interested in meeting me at my place for some intimate fun" I can't be anymore clear than that
starla33 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 at the bottom I put........"Only message me if you are interested in meeting me at my place for some intimate fun" I can't be anymore clear than that people don't read profiles....
Author WP4046 Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 (edited) people don't read profiles.... you mean they don't read them if they are attracted to him? Edited December 28, 2013 by WP4046
theothersully Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 I think they want to get to know you on some level to be sure you aren't a total nutcase. You should play a long just a bit, while continually steering them into the hookup.
mortensorchid Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Well ... Since you have stated the obvious that you are, in fact, looking for an intimate encounter and not a "date" or "relationship" or anything of the sort, then you should expect some craziness when doing just so. Otherwise, remember that when people go online for just such purposes without stating their true intention(s), or even if they are going into while trying to hide their true intention(s), you should be ready to encounter some crazy people. It's a risk you run in this situation.
Author WP4046 Posted December 28, 2013 Author Posted December 28, 2013 I think they want to get to know you on some level to be sure you aren't a total nutcase. You should play a long just a bit, while continually steering them into the hookup. I tried but the dumb girl said she don't like to talk on the phone only text since she is no longer a teenager. Then I said let's set up a day to meet then because I don't text only And she said no and i told her not to send me anymore messages
theothersully Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 I tried but the dumb girl said she don't like to talk on the phone only text since she is no longer a teenager. Then I said let's set up a day to meet then because I don't text only And she said no and i told her not to send me anymore messages Well, that one is lost. When you have little arguments in the first moments, it's done. You said there was a second one... and maybe there are more now? It's o.l.d. just keep going. Numbers game.
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