Do you want to know why male female relations are a bit adversarial?

[Mrlonelyone]

Ever wondered why women are so leery of being approached on the street?

Ever wondered why women are so leery of being approached at work?

Ever wondered why women are so leery of ...anything involving being alone with a man*.

 

 

 

 

Here is the fundamental reason why. For the first few hundred million years of sexual behavior the animals we evolved from were hermaphroditic and wormlike ocean dwellers. (This was over 500-800 million years ago. Before skeletons even existed.)

 

 

Check out what similar animals do today.

 

 

 

 

"Penis fencing". The looser gets to be pregnant with the sperm of the winner.

 

 

... A few hundred million years latter two genders evolve. Male and female animals. The division between us, and would would evolve into insects hadn't happened yet. The twist is...the females did not have a vagina or any kind of entrance for the penis! This is what was known as

 

 

 

 

"Traumatic insemination."

The male literally has to make a hole using his penis. Punching it into the female wherever he can.

 

 

Then we take it to the more recent past. Our ape like ancestors were living in Africa. It is thought that we lived something that was like.

 

 

1/2 this

 

 

and 1/2 this.

 

 

What is my point with this and what does it have to do with Dating you ask? We can learn a few things from this. If you've ever wondered why women are leery of male attention when they aren't interested. It really comes down to the first few hundred millions of years of animal life. It is programmed into all of our brains that sex is traumatic for the partner who's taking it in.

 

In simpler terms women do not want to get raped. They don't even want to be in a position to go along with having sex with a man who does not make them dripping wet.

 

 

Then we have the last few million years.

 

 

Notice the games that the female bonobo's and gorilla's play.

 

 

Human women, especially when young, are the same exact way. It is not conscious it just is. A man just needs to be machiavellian enough to realize this, narcicistic enough to think he can play women's game against them, and psycho enough to do it without pity or remorse.

 

 

 

 

 

 

*A man who isn't hot of course. Then the muscles relax, the tube becomes lubed and it's not traumatic at all.

[GemmaUK]

*A man who isn't hot of course. Then the muscles relax, the tube becomes lubed and it's not traumatic at all.

 

That has to be one of the strangest comments I have ever seen.

[Mrlonelyone]

That has to be one of the strangest comments I have ever seen.

 

 

I was referring to the fact that a man who makes a woman horny enough can do no wrong.