headinthecloud Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 You never 'get over' someone.. especially someone you spent a big chunk of your life with. What happens is that with TIME you learn to live without them. As it moves further away from you into the past, it gains less and less relevance in your life where you are that day. Think of it like the universe... since the big bang its expanding and all of component parts are speeding further and further away from each other. Your break up is your big bang. Its a big traumatic event, one that can spawn new experiences.... but as you are propelled further and further away, it falls off into a distant glow in the past. You can always turn around and look back at where IT all ignited behind you, and there will be some memories and recollections and emotions.. but as u go further out the image gets blurry, till one day you look back and you can't even make it out anymore and you're not even sure why you are straining to look. ^^ Brilliant analogy! 1
Author TylerDurdenn Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 Why does it feel like I'll never be with anyone else? New years eve tomorrow and luckily I'm off to a big party with no chance if seeing her.
Author TylerDurdenn Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 She just text me saying "make sure you get a New Years kiss tomorrow". ???
oracle Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 don't read into crumbs... guilt will make them do silly things She just text me saying "make sure you get a New Years kiss tomorrow". ???
TaraMaiden Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 She just text me saying "make sure you get a New Years kiss tomorrow". ??? Text back, "hell yeah, already have a few lined up!" 2
mtnbiker3000 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Reply: "Plan to get one right on my c*ck!!!"
Author TylerDurdenn Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 Just received this text - breaks my heart knowing things can't ever be the same.. I hope u have a better year than we ever had together good luck with everything wish u All the best and I'm always here.. U could never bother me xxxx Why does she say **** she doesn't mean? 'Breaks my heart''; yeah alright.
TaraMaiden Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Block her number, and change yours. For goodness' sake, don't even give her the time of day! have you read the NC Guide?
legion113 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Just received this text - breaks my heart knowing things can't ever be the same.. I hope u have a better year than we ever had together good luck with everything wish u All the best and I'm always here.. U could never bother me xxxx Why does she say **** she doesn't mean? 'Breaks my heart''; yeah alright. You could ask for a pity F.ck, see if that bothers her:)
mtnbiker3000 Posted December 31, 2013 Posted December 31, 2013 Just received this text - breaks my heart knowing things can't ever be the same.. I hope u have a better year than we ever had together good luck with everything wish u All the best and I'm always here.. U could never bother me xxxx Why does she say **** she doesn't mean? 'Breaks my heart''; yeah alright. This is all meaningless. Breadcrumbs, ego boost, ease of guilt. All for her and none for you. Means nothing!!! 1
Author TylerDurdenn Posted December 31, 2013 Author Posted December 31, 2013 Thank you guys, such a weird text. Hope everyone has a good night!
Simplysimon Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Your putting far too much significance on this girl. Your too young. Your feeling like this because you have no other options. You have invested in her too much emotionally. Women are there to compliment your life not be your life. Get back in the game and meet a new girl. There's nothing better than sleeping with another girl hotter and sexier than your ex to make you get over her. And if you can get 2 it soothes the pain quicker. In 10 years time you will look back and realise how really insignificant she was...enjoy the ride ..
BC1980 Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 Just received this text - breaks my heart knowing things can't ever be the same.. I hope u have a better year than we ever had together good luck with everything wish u All the best and I'm always here.. U could never bother me xxxx Why does she say **** she doesn't mean? 'Breaks my heart''; yeah alright. I received some of these same sentiments from my ex. They are infuriating and selfish. It gives you hope, and it's just sad to read. It really is to absolve guilt.
Author TylerDurdenn Posted January 1, 2014 Author Posted January 1, 2014 She text me again last night, really not sure of her motives. I had an awesome night, I've only just got out of bed (21:22) 2014 here we go...
Xemyd Posted January 1, 2014 Posted January 1, 2014 She text me again last night, really not sure of her motives. I had an awesome night, I've only just got out of bed (21:22) 2014 here we go... I feel like you should tell her to stop. I don't really believe in blocking someone's number, maybe because of my situation, but you may have to. She may give up eventually after being ignored all the time, but do you want to wait for that?
Author TylerDurdenn Posted January 2, 2014 Author Posted January 2, 2014 I feel like you should tell her to stop. I don't really believe in blocking someone's number, maybe because of my situation, but you may have to. She may give up eventually after being ignored all the time, but do you want to wait for that? I've just told her not to talk to me anymore and if I were to ever contact her she should ignore me. Whilst I'm in a better place, she's on my mind constantly.
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