Can you ever get rid of feelings for a girl who was once only a friend?

[SmilingMartin]

Me and this girl were just friends for 2 months. We clicked very quickly and before u know it we were hangin out every single night. As time passed by we developed feelings for each other.

 

We told each other that we did not want to get into a relationship because we did not want to ruin anything and besidies i was just getting out of a really bad relationship.

 

Well we made out a couple of times and i took it as she liked me a lot and that we will eventually go out in the future. I was wrong because she ended up makin out with other guys.

 

I have a lot of respect for this girl when she is not under the influence and i really respect her as a person. I miss her company a lot. We havent talked in 3 months and just started to talk on the phone yesterday

 

I really just want to be her friend because i know that us being together will not work out, even though I LIKE HER A LOT....more than words can say.

 

I was wondering that if i were to hang out with her a lot, will i be able to get rid of my feelings and justthink of her as a friend? If not, is there even a possible way of doing this? because this person means a lot to me and i do not want to lose her.

 

Thanks

[liono]

I would say it would be tough to get rid of those feelings. But she has the same feelings so maybe down the line something could work out. For right now, try to keep an open eye.