Yellowbirdie Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 My story is a little confused as my ex has depression and (I believe) is currently in the middle of a downer after a lot of things have recently changed in his life and he has a lot of pressure on him. He recently dropped the 'I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you any more' but couldn't explain why and said it had only changed that morning - a couple of nights before he was telling me everything he wanted to do in the future/telling me how much he loved me/we had sex/he genuinely made me feel wanted and loved. A couple of weeks later I tried to arrange for my stuff back and asked for some specific things like my house key. He put this off for another 2 weeks making excuses here and there and when he finally agreed a date and came round he brought everything except the stuff I asked for! We had a major talk for about 3 hours about how he felt, about his counselling and about whether this had had any effect on his decision and all he kept saying was he didn't know how he felt because he can't feel anything. BUT he was adamant he didn't love me any more. I tried to keep conversation going online after that but he was never initiating it so I told him I was deleting him off social media, that I didn't want to but it was too hard. He sent me a message back saying he was sorry 'I couldn't get the answers I wanted' and the 'he hopes in time we can be friends again' and that 'a part of him will always care about me'. We used to talk every day and since this last message we haven't spoken for 25 days. What did I do to deserve this? Everything honestly was fine, no fights to speak of it was just him seeing a new counsellor and all these life changes that have had an impact but why is it me he's cutting out? I was his rock!
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