goodyblue Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Artie, I almost NEVER agree with you, but in this instance... OMG, I hear you. I can't decide if the OP is a troll or a lunatic. Either way, not worth the time I'm wasting typing this. My guy and I began as an affair, which I am not happy about, but really? To blatantly treat someone like garbage just to prove he is? Clearly OP already knew this. If I were in this sitch I would def. move on and not waste my time. What bothers me is that OP may treat everyone in their life this way. Sad. 2
threelaurels Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 You're being really creepy. You're basically pretending to be someone else to your xMM for what... the sexting? If you're that desperate for dirty talk, why not call a phone sex line or hit up randoms in a chat room? TBH, the fact that you're specifically targeting your xMM makes this akin to stalking. You have proof now that he lied to you. Move on. Please, get some therapy. Also, my husband doesnt care if I dirty talk with random people online. He sees it the same as porn as lon as i be discreet and keep my identity hidden. I dont know if he'd care that it was xMM or not but im not going to tell him until i see how it goes. Easier to ask forgieveness? BTW, as l am not guving info, sending my own photos or meeting xMM it isnt really cheating. You doing something behind your husband's back that you know he probably would not be comfortable with. That's cheating. Plain and simple. 5
Nothisgirl Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 Oh im pulling randoms off google. Cropping them and stuff. Don't want your photos handed up dont put them on the internet, or take them for that matter! I am a made up person. My husband and I are doing great, thanks. And there is no future with xMM. Just going to have some fun while it lasts. This is just all kinds of ****ed up. Your husband and you are doing great yet you still have the need to catfish you EX MM?! I don't buy it. I wonder how "great" you'd be doing if he was privy to your new "game" 1
imperfectangel Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 But my plan is to just have some fun until it is boring and move on. trust you won't. with my ex mm I brok it off and decided to start it up again purely just to wind him up I planned on arranging to meet and standing him up I just wanted him to feel as crap as I do/did it didnt work and we both ended up back at square one trust me all this does is keep you in the affair
chelsea2011 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 (edited) This is really sad. Nothing good will come out of this for you VLM I hate to say. Edited December 28, 2013 by chelsea2011 1
BrokenPrincess Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 How long did it take him to start sexting a complete stranger on fb? Sounds like a pro!
whichwayisup Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 I find it funny when OW think something is messed up. Cuz Im lying? Pretending? Betraying someone? That means I need IC? Your MM goin to IC? You believe what you're doing is happy and normal behaviour? Sexting and pretending you're someone you're not? All for what? Sexual excitement for your exMM? If you truly think what you're doing is fine and is healthy, then it just shows your frame of mind is not realistic at all. Sorry to be blunt, but happily married people do not do what you're doing.
Author veritas lux mea Posted December 29, 2013 Author Posted December 29, 2013 You believe what you're doing is happy and normal behaviour? Sexting and pretending you're someone you're not? All for what? Sexual excitement for your exMM? If you truly think what you're doing is fine and is healthy, then it just shows your frame of mind is not realistic at all. Sorry to be blunt, but happily married people do not do what you're doing. And you think you know how all Happily married people work? I have some friends in an open marriage-fully and they are as happily married as can be. We always judge people by our own standards and what for? Yeah, I get for most the decieving part of this is sorta messed up. But then again, so is being involved with someone who is already taken. And even more so with no kids. Married man is in an open marriage now of sorts. My husband could care less about dirty talk so long as there is no details about our own life, I am incognito and there is no physical contact. He doesn't like video chatting either but more for actually putting my face out there and privacy reasons. So really, my husband may not be impressed it is xMM but I don't think he'd be pissed. Just roll his eyes and tell me not to give it away. Of course I am not brave enough to tell him... yet. But I will because I always tell him everything. He knows I am sexting and honestly nothing is locked down he could check if he wanted to know. nothing deleted either. which was a hard habit to break btw! the only person I am being dishonest with, really dishonest with, is xMM and I just don't feel sorry bout that! I'm sorry it bothers people on here but i think compared to a lot of the stories what I am doing is really really mild.
Author veritas lux mea Posted December 29, 2013 Author Posted December 29, 2013 How long did it take him to start sexting a complete stranger on fb? Sounds like a pro! I was floored. he like instantly started hitting on me. asked me who I was first and when I told him I was a fake account for getting to know people he started. crazy huh? I think he does this a lot.
missannoyed Posted December 29, 2013 Posted December 29, 2013 This made me laugh! He probably knows it's you. I mean if it's a fake account you wouldn't have that many comments on photos and it would be so obvious. I want to try this too! but I'm way too paranoid of getting caught! But I agree it would be extremely entertaining to do once or twice If you talk to him all the time though... well, it may be boarding on creepy and unhealthy.
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