FearingTEN Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Hello everyone . i've posted here a few times and this is just a vent . Not really seeking advice but words of encouragement . Its after christmas , its 2 AM and im sitting in my closet crying uncontrollably while readin me and my exs old love letters . i know i shouldn't but i did . I am giving her space because I smothered her quite a bit . She said she loved me romativally but I feel like I smothered her too much cuz she isnt talking to me as much. Been 24 hrs since I ignored her text. But i cant stop crying . I feel like all hope is gone . I took her for granted when she loved me the most . Now im sitting in this empty room crying like a b*tch . happy holidays everyone . Never take your loved one for granted ...
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I bet she took u for granted too at times.. we are all guilty of it.. dont beat yourself up xx
margot13 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Apparantely I am guilty of that too.... But really think about it, I am starting to realize if I did or didn't smother it would never be the right thing. How can someone leave you for loving too much, without giving you time to work on your own issues. That isn't love, partnerships and relationships are about growing and developing as individuals TOGETHER!!!! Don't be so hard on yourself...
Author FearingTEN Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 indeed she did ... but I don't blame her ... it was karma for me I gueess
Author FearingTEN Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 very true . Thank you margot.....
TylerDurdenn Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 She would devote herself to me, she would stay at my house whilst I went clubbing, she would wait for me whilst I played sports, she would come round my house everyday after she finished work, she would buy me stuff and take me out to dinner. And I was a complete dick, I brushed her off a lot of times and ignored her when she was at my house. Why did I act like such a fool!? I love this girl, I well and truly took her for granted. Now there is NO going back. I have changed, I have learnt from my mistakes. I'm still so deeply in love with her whilst she's out living her life.
Author FearingTEN Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 Indeed , Tyler . I totally know where you are coming from . we have all had our mistakes ... Cherish every moment everybody .
Elias33 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Never too late to change. If a mistake cost you so dearly, be sure to take a lesson from it. We've all been there, I sure have.
Dayzed Posted February 2, 2014 Posted February 2, 2014 Never to late to change for the Next one but almost always too late to change for This one... lessons of life im lucky i could see it coming from a couple months ago and i aint been hurtin that bad but i still cant get it into my head its over i keep thinkin about how im gonna forgive and forget when she comes backkkkkk........
Inviv_girl Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 She would devote herself to me, she would stay at my house whilst I went clubbing, she would wait for me whilst I played sports, she would come round my house everyday after she finished work, she would buy me stuff and take me out to dinner. And I was a complete dick, I brushed her off a lot of times and ignored her when she was at my house. Why did I act like such a fool!? I love this girl, I well and truly took her for granted. Now there is NO going back. I have changed, I have learnt from my mistakes. I'm still so deeply in love with her whilst she's out living her life. Wow, ok! Well now that she's gone, its time for you to move on. Regret always come to the end, its good if you learned the lesson and apply it to your life. Not just regret you took her for granted, but you must do it with your action that you will never ever do that kind of thing again to her or anyone in your life! ever again.
Tayla Posted February 3, 2014 Posted February 3, 2014 Wow, ok! Well now that she's gone, its time for you to move on. Regret always come to the end, its good if you learned the lesson and apply it to your life. Not just regret you took her for granted, but you must do it with your action that you will never ever do that kind of thing again to her or anyone in your life! ever again. I found this humorous- "Now go and never "EVER" do that again". Seriously??? Guess what , we all do it to a certain degree, he will do it again and so will you, we can never fully be pure. Cut the guy a break, its a life learning skill to be honed. The Key is to be more mindfull .
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