SanAntonio1992 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Hi guys, I would really like some input/advice. I've been talking to this girl for just over a year. We're good friends, but not really close. I started having feelings for her and (even though I had 0% chance), I couldn't stop thinking about her. There was a bit of flirting here and there, but that's about it. We use to send comprehensive messages with quick replies, now she's taking way longer to reply to my messages. We're talking about 8-40 hours. Half the time, she would reply late into the night (10pm-12am). She changed her whole communication style. Eg. Thank you for being the one who was there for me --- Thank u 4 being the 1 who was there 4 me. (this is just an example). Her grammar is below-par from before. That said, she doesn't seem to be annoyed in the conversation. She's never shy on the :-)'s, haha's or !'s and at times, call me nicknames (Mr Tradie) I work in construction btw. She just takes soooo long to reply. I understand that she works and all, but trust me, there's something that I must've done. I guess you could say, give her some of her own medicine, but I can't do it!! I reply whenever I have the chance. If I decide to do it, she might take it the wrong way. NOTE - It was her birthday last month so I decided to shoot her a text saying happy birthday. I included a few compliments in the message because I thought it would be nice. She replied 2 days later saying 'thanks, it's nice to know that someone thinks of me like that :-D' She gave me a compliment or 2. After that, she took ages to reply to my texts. The idea was so that I could express my feelings to her, without saying 'I love you'. MY QUESTION - What should I do?? Is she playing games or just not interested?? Any advice?? Thank you for your time, much appreciated! :-).
GemmaUK Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 You obviously helped her or had a link with her over something a while back. It sounds like she isn't interested and is just being polite in responding to be honest. She has no reason to not respond at all as you are just being polite also in her eyes. Sounded like in the beginning it was fun but a year is a very long time to just be texting someone.
PegNosePete Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Dude you are well into the friend zone. Why should she reply to you within a certain timeframe? Does she have some kind of written contract regarding text reply times? You are not her boyfriend or husband. If you want an instant answer then pick up the phone and CALL.
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