radiodarcy Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I deleted him from my fb before he dumped me. Let's just say, I saw it coming 1
chris21422 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 You should remove her from your facebook man. How can someone miss you if still she has a capability to see what your up to or can able to see what your doing with just one click.. Even if it's a good break up I don't think you need to keep her there.. It's gonna prolong your healing.. You can be friends again after sometime but not now.. Sometimes I want to...but we broke up on really good terms and I haven't felt like it's necessary so far. I hid all newsfeed updates from her and her friends, so it's ok as long as I can resist visiting her page. The one downside is that I'll post things or pictures and she will continue to like them...don't know why :/
organizedchaos Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 (edited) If no,why not? Not necessary. If she cheated or was cruel then I would have. She also keeps her profile private. Just unfriended her and all her friends. Blocking would look petty in my case. She hasn't unfriended any of my friends or some of my family after 5 months. I did block her on Instagram because unfriending there still leaves your profile visible and I wanted to disappear. But thinking if maybe lifting that block after 6 weeks now. Edited December 27, 2013 by organizedchaos
mikecr50 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Why block 'em you know they'll snoop! Let them see how happy you are without them:cool:
TuffJuff Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I unfriended her, but didn't block her. I don't want to lose all our pictures that we are tagged in together.
Amelia81 Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 I had to block my ex last year as I was so hurt I needed to prevent myself from sneaking a look at his page when I was trying to get over him. I knew even if I unfriended him I could still see some of his public posts so temptation would have still been there so off to my blocked list he went. Throughout the year, occasionally I thought about unblocking him but I know the reason I was tempted is because I'm curious which means part of me still cares so I don't do it! It's a similar theory to putting a credit card in the freezer... the process of getting to it gives you more time to think about whether you actually want it! The only times I've not blocked/unfriended someone is if I'm really not emotionally attached to them anymore. And then I'm not bothered if they unfriend me either.
gaius Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 I like to pretend all my ex-girlfriends took to the convent and swore off all other men after me so I'll defriend so I can't see any new information but they can always contact me if they want. It's always an ego boost if they do and if they don't who cares.
tlegend Posted December 28, 2013 Posted December 28, 2013 I'm a big fan of ghosting. It's immature, it's selfish, and it's downright rude, but if we no longer have a relationship and we can't maintain some sort of friendship, then I need to move on. In order for me to move on, I can't have thoughts of someone going through my mind. I will break down and try to contact them.
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