LadyM Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 He unfriended me. But I always wonder if that was in response to me not responding to his FB im's or some other reason.
Author Riou Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 He unfriended me. But I always wonder if that was in response to me not responding to his FB im's or some other reason. It could be,or maybe he's just as affected as well..
chris21422 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I dont know why some people can keep their ex in social networks. Just doesn't make sense.. You can be friends again probably after some time but not when you aren't healed.. It will be interesting to know how many people here is keeping their ex in their social networks.. Your just prolonging your healing process doing that.
LadyM Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 It could be,or maybe he's just as affected as well.. It could be because he unfriended me the day after we had both been on FB for hours late in the night. It was a relief he did it because I'd always be searching for his green dot and when I'd see it, my heart would race. It was awful.
Author Riou Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 I dont know why some people can keep their ex in social networks. Just doesn't make sense.. You can be friends again probably after some time but not when you aren't healed.. It will be interesting to know how many people here is keeping their ex in their social networks.. Your just prolonging your healing process doing that. Some people can control themselves from looking or don't even login once a month. It could be because he unfriended me the day after we had both been on FB for hours late in the night. It was a relief he did it because I'd always be searching for his green dot and when I'd see it, my heart would race. It was awful. You were still talking to him after the break up? Do you check on his fb sometimes since he didn't block you?
LadyM Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 (edited) Some people can control themselves from looking or don't even login once a month. You were still talking to him after the break up? Do you check on his fb sometimes since he didn't block you? We talked for a short while after the BU, but then I stopped that. But he would message me every few weeks on FB anyway, but I never responded. I had told him I needed to move forward and heal so I wouldn't be able to have contact with him, but he didn't care and messaged me anyway. I do check his FB profile sometimes, but I am unable to see any current activity. Edited December 27, 2013 by LadyM
Zoe Lilith Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Does it matter? It's over and no longer relevant..I agree with whoever posted a thread about people taking being blocked on Fabcebook and other social sites way to seriously.
2fargone Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I haven't blocked her. I have no Facebook. I threw her out of my contacts everywhere but no, haven't blocked her. Blocking her in this scenario would be controlling for me. She can't see me online, I can't see her online, but she knows where to find me if she needs to and vice versa. Seems enough for me. Freedom for each of us to do as we please.
777doom Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Blocked her from my newsfeed but didn't unfriend. I'm good at stopping myself from going on her profile as I don't want to see something that will hurt me, this is motivation enough not to. Unfriended her friends who I only met once (only 5 mutuals) so I don't have any random photos of her pop up on my feed. 2
Wings Of Love Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Deleted him and all his family, blocked him, and went through my whole profile to remove every comment and photo that was connected to him. Maybe a bit extreme, but at least I don't have to worry about stumbling across something painful. 3
FortunateSon Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 She unfriended and blocked soon after. I deleted everyone I met through her. I noticed that she would periodically unblock me for a shirt time, but would later reblock. I only noticed because when unblocked, pictures and posts would reappear. The last time she unblocked me, I noticed she finally deleted all of my friends and family. It is for the better, I have no desire to see what she is doing and if I notice she unblocks me again, I will take the initative to block her.
xUnknown Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I blocked her from my posts and from her showing up in my news feed - along with her family and her best friend. I had the self control to not look at her page for 3.5 months. It was nice knowing that I could, but I chose not to. I felt like that wasn't the end of us, somehwere along the line we would at least be friends again. I also saw it as being childish - I know it isn't, but idk...I sort of did. But, low and behold, I was right. She came back begging...still deciding what I'm going to do. 1
williesd Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I intially unfriended my ex. We spoke, she got mean to me during the conversation, I then went back and blocked her. I also defriended all her friends and family. It was time to move on and heal. Breakups can be difficult, no sense in living in the past. My family told me shortly there after, up went pic of her and new BF. Best to not know what's up in her life. I didn't put a lot of weight into the though, we had a three month period where we weren't seeing each other 14 months prior, at some point you just have to move forward. 1
chris21422 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 True that.. I intially unfriended my ex. We spoke, she got mean to me during the conversation, I then went back and blocked her. I also defriended all her friends and family. It was time to move on and heal. Breakups can be difficult, no sense in living in the past. My family told me shortly there after, up went pic of her and new BF. Best to not know what's up in her life. I didn't put a lot of weight into the though, we had a three month period where we weren't seeing each other 14 months prior, at some point you just have to move forward.
Mariposa10 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I wasn't gonna do anything because he never uses FB, but just in case I deleted him. Months passed and he checked FB and saw I had sent some private messages when we were still together. He replied to those and sent me a friend request. I answered the private messages, but didn't add him
EuTuBrute Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I hid her and her friends from my news feed... I wish i would have blocked her because i know she still looks at my online activity... she tried to start an argument with me over me liking someones status. Its lame. But it hey it least i know she still checks up on me and it gives me power.
vassilbg Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I unfriended my ex and her two close friends. She still has my mom and grandma as her friends and she even liked a photo of me that my mom posted... so weird.
somedude81 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I unfriended her. At this point I can't stop myself from going to her page and seeing what she's up to. I doubt she even noticed.
mirage12 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Sometimes I want to...but we broke up on really good terms and I haven't felt like it's necessary so far. I hid all newsfeed updates from her and her friends, so it's ok as long as I can resist visiting her page. The one downside is that I'll post things or pictures and she will continue to like them...don't know why :/
TxJD79 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 For the first month after he dumped me, his status still said in a relationship so I pathetically waited to see if maybe he'd change his mind. When he changed his status to single, i unfriended him and deleted our facebook pics together. When i learned he was dating someone new 2 months out, I blocked him..not to be mean or bitter, but because I knew it would be super painful to see pics of the new couple and even if he didnt post pics (he's not big into social media), i knew I wouldnt be able to keep from looking at his page. Granted, i can always unblock him, but somehow I've managed to keep him blocked 4 months out. I still worry/wonder if he's noticed and thinks i hate him or am bitter. The breakup wasn't angry or hateful. He just didn't think it would work out after 2.5 years. And yea, I still want him back. But I've said everything I needed to say and have let him know I'm here to talk if he wants to. but of course that was before i blocked him. I'm trying to go with the "if it's meant to be, it'll be" mindset.
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