coquettishlips Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Well, the ex from the previous post, we did try again and he turned out as a bigger dick, still not trying or doing his part. Mind you I worked only most of the relationship and did everything, it was 98/2 than 50/50. He had the nerve to tell me he had enough of all the trouble he's caused. Broken the trust many times, was always constantly flirting which in return made me never want to truly open myself to him. But long story short. He wished me a Merry Christmas, and said "Sorry about everything." I ignored it, not believing it because of how it all went down again. I wanted my space now, I may love him but he went too far this time. Next morning he texted me again "Hey." I ignored it again, I am debating on to reply or to continue to ignore and stay away from him, since he stated I wasn't practically good enough, out going enough, etc. Even though I was doing more in the relationship. So, should I continue to ignore or just be the sweet and bigger person and answer?
chris21422 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 So you guys are back together right now right? Well, the ex from the previous post, we did try again and he turned out as a bigger dick, still not trying or doing his part. Mind you I worked only most of the relationship and did everything, it was 98/2 than 50/50. He had the nerve to tell me he had enough of all the trouble he's caused. Broken the trust many times, was always constantly flirting which in return made me never want to truly open myself to him. But long story short. He wished me a Merry Christmas, and said "Sorry about everything." I ignored it, not believing it because of how it all went down again. I wanted my space now, I may love him but he went too far this time. Next morning he texted me again "Hey." I ignored it again, I am debating on to reply or to continue to ignore and stay away from him, since he stated I wasn't practically good enough, out going enough, etc. Even though I was doing more in the relationship. So, should I continue to ignore or just be the sweet and bigger person and answer?
Author coquettishlips Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 No, we are not back together, he dumped me again saying how we were a good match and how he needed a more out going girl for him mind, you I've done things and have been out going, and made sure we went out when I wasn't working.
margot13 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Don't respond, you've given it many chances by the sounds of it? Or if you do be very direct and asks what he wants... 1
chris21422 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 It looks like a very toxic relationship.. If you want space from each other.. Just do not respond then and continue going NC. Also why would you want a guy who's gonna keep dumping you just because he wants a outgoing girl? wtf that is just immature.. Do not respond to him.. or better block him now from everything if you want to move on and just pretend that he died. No, we are not back together, he dumped me again saying how we were a good match and how he needed a more out going girl for him mind, you I've done things and have been out going, and made sure we went out when I wasn't working.
Author coquettishlips Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 I just know what he was saying was bull**** and I got pissed more than anything, yeah he was always stubborn and stupid and obviously didn't see what he had. He at least told me he knows I am the sweetest girl ever and he's never going to find someone like me again, so maybe it dawned on him when Christmas came around? Eh I know it's his big loss.
chris21422 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Yea. also if you replied nothing good will came out of it. You are probably still angry with him. Just let him and live your life.. He seems immature. How old are you both? I just know what he was saying was bull**** and I got pissed more than anything, yeah he was always stubborn and stupid and obviously didn't see what he had. He at least told me he knows I am the sweetest girl ever and he's never going to find someone like me again, so maybe it dawned on him when Christmas came around? Eh I know it's his big loss.
Author coquettishlips Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 I am 26 and he is 28, I grew up quick and I know I gave a lot, and sacrificed so much within the two years we did have on and off.
margot13 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I am 26 and he is 28, I grew up quick and I know I gave a lot, and sacrificed so much within the two years we did have on and off. So stop sacrificing, he doesn't sound worth your precious time to me.
Author coquettishlips Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 Oh I did I even asked for my things back from his apartment that I bought there to make myself more comfortable, and he told me he minded that I came over, no reason to come back over anymore. I just wanted my stuff back. But after that I let it alone, threw away the boxes I had to pick them up and just ignore him from there. Just frustrating me he thinks his apology is acceptable and that he deserves to be forgiven.
LadyM Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I would ignore his "hey" text. If he really wanted or needed something from you, he would say. This is but a casual, lonely text for attention. I do hope you stay away from him. My ex was also flirtatious with other women and critical of me. It was the most awful feeling and you don't want that. My ex also apologized to me, but to me, it was meaningless. Empty words. You can do better. 2
Author coquettishlips Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 (edited) My self esteem is better, always have been good I know I have always been attractive and such, just tired of thinking I have a great guy and then they turn out to be crappy. My ex before him was just as stupid as the next sadly, and I cut him off too. Just would've really enjoyed my stuff back and to enjoy the other people and friends in life who do appreciate me. Edited December 27, 2013 by coquettishlips
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