SunsetRed Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 A few months ago, I posted about how I had found a new bf and that it drove MM crazy that he couldn't control this and he actually came back to me and asked me to marry him. Of course, he couldn't marry me, as he was still "living in the garage" w his wife. Lots of people on here posted that they had gone thru a similar thing and that it was just narcissism on MMs part. So, I didn't leave my bf because of MM. I stayed w him and enjoyed what he had to offer me. We ended up breaking up over something silly, but yet understandable too. He is a fitness trainer and a cross fit addict. I exercise but not addictively, due to a history of an eating disorder which I fought hard to overcome. Well, the new bf kept pushing me to exercise more and do cross fit and I knew I needed to choose my health over him. He also wanted a fitter woman so the break up worked for both of us and no one was hurt. Anyhow..now Im single and don't really want MM to come back, but the point is, he wont come back because he only wanted to see if he could take me from another guy and get his control back and he never wanted me anyway. Well, here I sit on Xmas week, alone and thinking of these things..
whichwayisup Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Wow, your (ex) boyfriend is a real turd to push you like that. I'm glad that you ended it. Your health comes first! As for your exMM, block him out, make it impossible for him to contact you. Even if it's a pain in the ass, change your numbers, email, etc.. Protect yourself and continue on your healing path. Call some women friends and go have fun. Try not to think too much about this.... Enjoy being single! 1
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