Bys2 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 (edited) This is my story that i really hope its a dream! A bit long but confusing! Me and my girlfriend of a year and a half just broke up well i got dumped! Me nd her were on very good terms her mom didnt like me cuz i wasnt polish like they are , that wasnt the deal but she caused alot of stress on my girlfriend, we fought alot almost everyday for the past 1 month for the stupidest reasons ever, anyway i got a job offer in Tennessee and we both live in NJ i told my girlfriend id get back to the people after the holidays, last saturday we fought a small fight like always but then she told me she wants to talk so i went over and we talked nd the surprising news cane as in we have to break up, i dnt love u like you love me anymore, she said its all the stress from her mom nd the small fights pile up nd it led to this. She really wanted me to take the job because it pays really good money , she wants the best for me, but i actually told the people i dont want the job and wanted to surprise her with it on christmas day that im not taking the job and stayin here next to her not leaving her behind. She got really upset when i told her i didnt take the job opportunity. Long story short now were broken up because of what she said fights and stress caused her to not love me the same anymore although she loves me but not that way. Its hard for me to explain more the pain is unbearable i love this girl wAy too much to let her go. We didnt talk for a day or two then we met yesterday on christmas day and went out for a bit then when i was drop her off we talked and had a heart to heart conversation, i also gave a note letter of one page that i did say she meant alot to me and if she gets back with me ill do anything to make her the happiest ever, but next days she texts me and tells me she stays her ground and decision, and how i deserve someone better that really can appreciate me and stuff, she was hysterically crying her eyes out!!! I dont understand whats happening but all i know is i want her back and i love her now more than ever what do i do? Im gonna stop talkin to her for a bit but then what? If thats the not the case what do you people think pleasee help me ! ;( im in a misery Edited December 27, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
legion113 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Take the job. Make it easier for you to let her go if it comes to that. Besides, you really want to deal with her mom for the rest of your life? in the same state?
fixing Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Take the bloody job if you can man! Ring them back and tell them you made a mistake. As for the mum, she sounds like an old fashioned racist idiot. As for your ex? Nothing you can do man. She made her choice. Its best that you go and get back that high paying job. Who knows? Maybe your ex will come running after you when you leave, but right now you gotta continue no contact and go to Tennessee!
Chi townD Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 How do you know she was crying her eyes out through texts?
Author Bys2 Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 I knw cuz she called me while we were talking. Im just letting it be for now. The dumper talk to ease it up for the dumpee was sugar coated as in ill be here for you and you never know in the future we might grt back together and all that
TylerDurdenn Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I knw cuz she called me while we were talking. Im just letting it be for now. The dumper talk to ease it up for the dumpee was sugar coated as in ill be here for you and you never know in the future we might grt back together and all that She called you whilst you were talking? How does that work? It may appear sudden to you but she has been falling out of love with you for a long time.
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