The thought of her being in a new relationship? How do I overcome

[JohnnyLoverBoy]

Hey guys! I'm going strong doing No Contact..

 

There is something in my mind that is keep on bugging me everyday.

 

It's the thought of her being in a new relationship some day.. She doesn't have anyone right now but when that day comes..

 

I don't know how would I handle it.

 

Any tips on how do I overcome it? I just want prepare myself

[radiodarcy]

Honestly, I can't think of anyway to prepare for how to handle it. I do know that sticking to NC is the best way to get yourself ready for it though.

 

NC really is about keeping the focus on you so you're not dwelling on what she's doing/could be doing down the road. You mentioned your going strong with the NC, so my advice is to keep it up.

 

I remember when I did finally find out my ex had a new gf - - who was pregnant with his kid to boot! - - it wasn't an easy pill to swallow. But by then I had close to 10 months of NC under my belt. And while it definitely rattled me for a week or so, my recovery was much less had I not been in NC during that time.

[TylerDurdenn]

Delete her from all social media.

[Toddbt12y1]

Time should overcome it. Only so far/much you can distract yourself. The best method to ridding this, would probably be to remove her from sight. Outta sight, outta mind. You said, that you know she is not with anyone else. That you'd hate to find out.

 

Why do you know this? Why do you have to find out? Have you removed her from all sources of your life, to prevent this information from coming up? Charge your friends and family to not mention her.

 

All in all time. Eventually these things have to be accepted, as it will happen. With acceptance, comes relief...Eventually.

[HeartbrokenNewbie]

I can't tell u how u will feel as everyone is different but I've been there & I can definitely tell u that u will get over it xx

[JohnnyLoverBoy]

Yes I did removed all the sources..

 

Just last night though one of our common friends just told me that she is still single..

 

I did told him to stop talking about her.. I guess it just takes time. It's only been 2 months.

 

Hopefully when that day comes I will be ready and strong enough to face it.

 

 

 

 

Time should overcome it. Only so far/much you can distract yourself. The best method to ridding this, would probably be to remove her from sight. Outta sight, outta mind. You said, that you know she is not with anyone else. That you'd hate to find out.

 

Why do you know this? Why do you have to find out? Have you removed her from all sources of your life, to prevent this information from coming up? Charge your friends and family to not mention her.

 

All in all time. Eventually these things have to be accepted, as it will happen. With acceptance, comes relief...Eventually.

[Toddbt12y1]

You will be. As I said. Accept the fact that at any given time, y'know? She could be with someone else...

 

Trust me, I know how you feel. I know.....

 

I loved a woman too, and had to come to terms with a lot. Took me a long time too, a year. You aren't me though, and hopefully will come to terms with it, eventually.