dlks Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 I'll try and be fairly brief for you -At the age of 15 I had my first love, a male friend of mine. He never knew my feelings and we lost contact when he moved schools. -Never got closure on the whole thing and was messed up for a long time, don't even know if I would consider myself to be completely over it even now. -6 years later, I contacted him casually a few weeks ago and we've talked a lot since, including IMing all day Christmas eve and Christmas day. -He is now aware that I used to really like him Yesterday he asked if I'd like to catch up and hang out, we're going out tomorrow. I really don't know what to expect because I don't know if he likes me or not. The word 'date' was never used and there's no solid plan for what we're doing (we're meeting up on the way into the city and are just going to have a spontaneous little adventure). However, he's made comments such as 'I don't mind what we do, as long as I get to spend time with you I'm happy' He keeps referring to me as 'lovely' and when I went to bed last night he said 'goodnight, gorgeous' and asked for my number. I really just don't know how to approach this. I don't know if he likes me or not. I'm not sure if we're going out as just friends or if it's to see how we get on together in case he's interested in something more. Does anyone have any thoughts/tips/suggestions? I've never so much as been on a date before (yes, even at the age of 21) and if it does turn out that he likes me, I don't really know what I'd do or how I'd handle it.
KatZee Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 It's been 6 years since seeing him/being in contact. You don't know this guy anymore. Everything you feel right now is what you felt for him / liked about him when he was 15. Who knows what he's like now. He could have grown up to be a giant douchebag. Just be relaxed and go hang out with him. Get to know him again.
Author dlks Posted December 26, 2013 Author Posted December 26, 2013 Believe me, I'm trying to be relaxed haha I know he's a completely different person now, and I don't know if I like him, but if it turns out he does like me, I think my old feelings will just pop up out of nowhere and prevent me resisting
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