margot13 Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I just recieved this message: "The silent treatment won't make you get over me any faster". Seriously, what the ****? Who the hell does she think she is? I should have changed my number after all, because I'm furious right now. Wow that is cruel!!!! I know women can play mean with words but that wins a prize!!!!!!
Author Kevin_D Posted December 30, 2013 Author Posted December 30, 2013 I would also say she sounds psychotic and very vindictive. I would write a note to her, preferably email, telling her to back off or you will go to the courts. Keep a copy and if she keeps after you, then you have a paper trail to show her behavior towards you. It's not that bad. She has some stuff at my place and she wants to come and get it. I'm pretty sure that I won't hear from her again once she has picked up the stuff. But like I said, I'm beginning to think that she's bipolar after all. It's hereditary and she reminds me of her mother. And bipolar disease can cause psychosis. In that case it's very, very sad, because I've always feared that this day would come. 1
Chi townD Posted December 30, 2013 Posted December 30, 2013 I just recieved this message: "The silent treatment won't make you get over me any faster". Seriously, what the ****? Who the hell does she think she is? I should have changed my number after all, because I'm furious right now. Uh huh...yeah, right... Dude, ignore her and if she still has some things at your place, then box it up and give it to a mutual friend to give to her or put it in the mail. No need to wait and see her again.
Author Kevin_D Posted January 3, 2014 Author Posted January 3, 2014 Alright guys, I hope you're ready for an update! So she asked me if she could come and get her stuff the day before new years eve. I said yes. I felt prepared to see her for a couple of minutes again. Anyway, just a couple of hours before she was supposed to arrive at my place, she texted me that she couldn't make it. I responded "Alright, you can get your stuff on thursday". At this point I felt that I was being too nice, but anyway. Obviously, for some unknown reason, she didn't get the message. She texted me today and asked me again. I said that she could come on monday. Again, she told me that she was unable to make it. So I replied: "Alright, you can come on sunday. If you can't make it on sunday or monday, I will put your clothes in a sack and place in the yard. Then you can pick it up anytime you want". Are you prepared for the response? Oh, no you're not. You better sit down, trust me! Here it comes: "Do you really sleep better at night by thinking that you can **** with me? What do you gain? When I broke up with you, at least I was honest with you why I couldn't go on." (Yeah, she needed "space" *cough*. Didn't mention the other guy even though I asked about him like 50 times.) "You've become so cold lately and refuse to tell me why." (Except that I DID tell her that I'm trying to move on. I even got criticised on LS for explaining things) "What has happened? Can't you show me some respect after 6 years and tell me about it?" (Well... If you wanted to discuss things, I guess you should've thought about that BEFORE HANGING UP AND REMOVING ME FROM FACEBOOK/SKYPE. Or, you could try actually calling me instead of sending me weird text messages?) Enough is enough. A friend has offered to drive her stuff to her place. I didn't like the idea at first, because I kind of think that it's her problem, but on the other hand, I can't just throw her things out. Anyway... What do you make of this? Has she completely lost her mind?
chris21422 Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Oh man that was messy.. She's in rage hahaha Alright guys, I hope you're ready for an update! So she asked me if she could come and get her stuff the day before new years eve. I said yes. I felt prepared to see her for a couple of minutes again. Anyway, just a couple of hours before she was supposed to arrive at my place, she texted me that she couldn't make it. I responded "Alright, you can get your stuff on thursday". At this point I felt that I was being too nice, but anyway. Obviously, for some unknown reason, she didn't get the message. She texted me today and asked me again. I said that she could come on monday. Again, she told me that she was unable to make it. So I replied: "Alright, you can come on sunday. If you can't make it on sunday or monday, I will put your clothes in a sack and place in the yard. Then you can pick it up anytime you want". Are you prepared for the response? Oh, no you're not. You better sit down, trust me! Here it comes: "Do you really sleep better at night by thinking that you can **** with me? What do you gain? When I broke up with you, at least I was honest with you why I couldn't go on." (Yeah, she needed "space" *cough*. Didn't mention the other guy even though I asked about him like 50 times.) "You've become so cold lately and refuse to tell me why." (Except that I DID tell her that I'm trying to move on. I even got criticised on LS for explaining things) "What has happened? Can't you show me some respect after 6 years and tell me about it?" (Well... If you wanted to discuss things, I guess you should've thought about that BEFORE HANGING UP AND REMOVING ME FROM FACEBOOK/SKYPE. Or, you could try actually calling me instead of sending me weird text messages?) Enough is enough. A friend has offered to drive her stuff to her place. I didn't like the idea at first, because I kind of think that it's her problem, but on the other hand, I can't just throw her things out. Anyway... What do you make of this? Has she completely lost her mind?
Author Kevin_D Posted January 3, 2014 Author Posted January 3, 2014 I feel like ignoring this message. She can ask about her stuff, but whether I'm cold or not is none of her business. especially since she was the one who initiated NC.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Alright guys, I hope you're ready for an update! So she asked me if she could come and get her stuff the day before new years eve. I said yes. I felt prepared to see her for a couple of minutes again. Anyway, just a couple of hours before she was supposed to arrive at my place, she texted me that she couldn't make it. I responded "Alright, you can get your stuff on thursday". At this point I felt that I was being too nice, but anyway. Obviously, for some unknown reason, she didn't get the message. She texted me today and asked me again. I said that she could come on monday. Again, she told me that she was unable to make it. So I replied: "Alright, you can come on sunday. If you can't make it on sunday or monday, I will put your clothes in a sack and place in the yard. Then you can pick it up anytime you want". Are you prepared for the response? Oh, no you're not. You better sit down, trust me! Here it comes: "Do you really sleep better at night by thinking that you can **** with me? What do you gain? When I broke up with you, at least I was honest with you why I couldn't go on." (Yeah, she needed "space" *cough*. Didn't mention the other guy even though I asked about him like 50 times.) "You've become so cold lately and refuse to tell me why." (Except that I DID tell her that I'm trying to move on. I even got criticised on LS for explaining things) "What has happened? Can't you show me some respect after 6 years and tell me about it?" (Well... If you wanted to discuss things, I guess you should've thought about that BEFORE HANGING UP AND REMOVING ME FROM FACEBOOK/SKYPE. Or, you could try actually calling me instead of sending me weird text messages?) Enough is enough. A friend has offered to drive her stuff to her place. I didn't like the idea at first, because I kind of think that it's her problem, but on the other hand, I can't just throw her things out. Anyway... What do you make of this? Has she completely lost her mind? She's an idiot -- that's pretty much all there is to it. I'd bag her sh*t up and drop it on her porch. Or box it up and send it to her via UPS if its not too costly. Either way, it's time to cut off that lifeline and leave this chick in the past. She's done you dirty and is acting like a loon. You're better off without her in your life at all.
Author Kevin_D Posted January 3, 2014 Author Posted January 3, 2014 She's an idiot -- that's pretty much all there is to it. I'd bag her sh*t up and drop it on her porch. Or box it up and send it to her via UPS if its not too costly. Either way, it's time to cut off that lifeline and leave this chick in the past. She's done you dirty and is acting like a loon. You're better off without her in your life at all. Yeah, I think me and my friend will drop her stuff off at her porch on tuesday. This is actually helping me move on faster. I miss the one she _was_ like hell, but the way she behaves right now... it's just pathetic.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Yeah, I think me and my friend will drop her stuff off at her porch on tuesday. This is actually helping me move on faster. I miss the one she _was_ like hell, but the way she behaves right now... it's just pathetic. Yeah, I almost think it's better for them to act like douchebags. It makes you want to move forward that much quicker.
mantlefan Posted January 3, 2014 Posted January 3, 2014 Yeah, I almost think it's better for them to act like douchebags. It makes you want to move forward that much quicker. I am starting to understand that. It took me a long time to even start taking my ex off of a pedestal.
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