mitch_m Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Last spring, my ex and I broke up for what I now realize was my lack of confidence in the relationship. We didn't necessarily fight or anything, but my day to day feelings became too dependant on her. If she didn't text or call, or texted in a certain tone, I was worried it was over. She surely sensed this, and eventually it was over. After a couple of weeks, I got myself together and eventually did get that second chance when she saw the same confidence I had portrayed in the beginning. But... once again, I blew it. I started to question things even more, and eventually pushed her away again with my insecurity. I did get the second chance, but let my head get the best of me. Anyway, I thought I would post that, because maybe someone might find it relevant. I know what happened, I know how I got her back, and I know how I lost her again. Long story short... be a man, always.
conf Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 I think that this is a good example why second chances fail pretty often. Rushing on things without actual change and personal growth always lead in same patterns. I personally prefer my second chance (if i get one) to be many months even some years down the road. In such way you have time to reflect, time to change and time to see other relationships and so there wont be any feeling of resentment because someone had another partner in the meanwhile. Thus will be a NEW relationship with a solid ground.
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