Initiating contact after dating a while

[jinandjuice]

I have been dating this girl and mostly everytime it is me that sets up the dates. For contact I usually initiate 80 to 90 percent while she is 20%. Everytime I do initiate contact she replies and we usually have conversations. Also I am always initiating calls as well but when I do call her we will talk for hours and hours on end. Is this a bad thing? In the beginning. Of dating she told me that guys should be the ones to "chase" or get the woman because she is scared to put her self out there to get hurt. Should I just initiate contact whenever or does this give er the sense of power over me. Am I playing the nice guy role when initiating contact with her? I have not talked to her for a day andd then she will snap chat me. We have been dating for around 2-3 months which I don't know if it's a long time. Should we talk or text everyday or is that too much

[d0nnivain]

It's not a power trip. She told you that she expects you to initiate contact & "chase" her. It's an old fashioned traditional view point, not a power game.

 

 

After you have been dating a while you could ask her to call you more.

 

 

For now call her as you feel appropriate.

[jinandjuice]

Even though we're in a couple months deep I should keep texting and calling first? I mean when I do it's good but it's be nice if she hit me up first. Maybe it's because I didn't grow up in the states that it's kinda foreign to me.

[d0nnivain]

Talk to her. Tell her you'd like her to initiate more. It'll probably never be 50/50 but since you are now at 80/20, if it improves to 60/40 you are in the right direction.