nerdlingZA Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Lol guys I posted here not too long ago saying I've moved on ,well that's for Sho ...Now this morning I found myself looking back at the memoriez back in feb , March and April when I used to beg her , I laughed soo hard , my mom and dad looked at me weirdly (LoL) I was soo totally out of character , that character was the ****tiest thing that has ever happend to me. Yday I was reading the threads based on NC For Christmas , I was even thinking of calling her , I actually laughed at the thread called "if you still love them , contact them on christmas" that thread was childish , the person who wrote it is probably still trying to win her/him back. Now my question that I keep on asking my mind is HOW THE F***** DID I MOVE ON ? Lol (forgive my lingo) its just a weird feeling been happy all by myself , its like I went NC for 3-4 weeks (not only that I also went NC for 4 months earlier this year B4 her coming back to my life with breadcrumbs) and feelings faded heavily I mean ZERO , I'm not sure if its bcoz I've haven't seen her for 3-4 weeks or what , but DAMN YOU GUYS I'm totally happy by myself , I'm trying to understand how I moved on ... Confussing I'm not sure Why I'm even starting a thread based on her , I just want those who have moved on to tell me , if its coz iam on permant NC or its coz I haven't seen her for 3-4 weeks now ?? 1
Augustus64 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 I think its a little bit of both. more NC the better tho. Glad you laughed at yourself thats a GREAT sign. your good man, happy holidays
mtnbiker3000 Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Just be aware that this might not be what it seems like. You may have many more ups and downs as the weeks/months roll by. Either way, enjoy it while you can!!
AlphaC Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 Lol guys I posted here not too long ago saying I've moved on ,well that's for Sho ...Now this morning I found myself looking back at the memoriez back in feb , March and April when I used to beg her , I laughed soo hard , my mom and dad looked at me weirdly (LoL) I was soo totally out of character , that character was the ****tiest thing that has ever happend to me. Yday I was reading the threads based on NC For Christmas , I was even thinking of calling her , I actually laughed at the thread called "if you still love them , contact them on christmas" that thread was childish , the person who wrote it is probably still trying to win her/him back. Now my question that I keep on asking my mind is HOW THE F***** DID I MOVE ON ? Lol (forgive my lingo) its just a weird feeling been happy all by myself , its like I went NC for 3-4 weeks (not only that I also went NC for 4 months earlier this year B4 her coming back to my life with breadcrumbs) and feelings faded heavily I mean ZERO , I'm not sure if its bcoz I've haven't seen her for 3-4 weeks or what , but DAMN YOU GUYS I'm totally happy by myself , I'm trying to understand how I moved on ... Confussing I'm not sure Why I'm even starting a thread based on her , I just want those who have moved on to tell me , if its coz iam on permant NC or its coz I haven't seen her for 3-4 weeks now ?? Dude take it easy, when you move on you won't be posting on here anymore, at least not about your ex, FACT. As long as you are doing NC you haven't moved on, no such thing as permanent NC. Once you move on, you are over it and indifferent, the ex is history and contact or "no contact" doesn't matter anymore... remember that! 5
SameOldFear Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 I've been on NC for 26 days now and I wish so badly I had done it immediately after our split. I'm not over it, but the past 26 days has gone 500 times better than the previous two months of trying to be "friends" with my ex. I'm definitely not indifferent yet and think I should stay NC for at least a couple more months, but he's a very small fraction of my thoughts now. And the thoughts that do remain are mostly angry ones, realizing how horrible he truly was to me. If he came back now I would say absolutely positively not ever. It would be hard, but I've been able to take off my rose colored glasses about him and us.
Author nerdlingZA Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 Dude take it easy, when you move on you won't be posting on here anymore, at least not about your ex, FACT. As long as you are doing NC you haven't moved on, no such thing as permanent NC. Once you move on, you are over it and indifferent, the ex is history and contact or "no contact" doesn't matter anymore... remember that! Your post is like "when u move on you won't be talking to your Ex anymore" , dude seriously ?? I'm just hit up by excitement.
Author nerdlingZA Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 Just be aware that this might not be what it seems like. You may have many more ups and downs as the weeks/months roll by. Either way, enjoy it while you can!! Nah man I've had my ups and downs rollercoster for 6 months , I think I'm over that stage.
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