greenfairie Posted December 26, 2013 Posted December 26, 2013 It's painful. God, I miss him so much. Last night while I was packing, I came across some old baby pictures of my ex… Immediately I had a flashback to sitting on the floor in his brother's bedroom where his niece and I were playing.. I was looking thru his photo albums, just was in awe at how cute my ex was…. He was cooking lunch at the time for his niece, me, and him…. I miss spending time with him. It was always nice. I wonder if he misses me or reminisces about our relationship, even if he doesn't ever want to get back together. It'd be comforting to know he cares and thinks about the good times.
Lisa22 Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 Greenfairie, Im sorry. That sounds very painful and I can completely relate to how real the flashbacks of certain memories together comes on.... Since yesterday evening..I too have been obsessing about the thought whether my ex miss me or thinks about us, about me. Does he feel bad? Your right, its a comforting thought to have it confirmed that he cares or is thinking about the good times....And yet, i have to control ever bit of me to resist the urge and ask him via text or email..because I don't want to look pathetic. And I want to appear strong... Like you, I blocked him officially on Facebook..I have not yet blocked him on my phone because he's watching my pet over the break and I need to be available if something comes up...but I know that phone blocking is going to be the next step! Hugs to you.
Author greenfairie Posted December 27, 2013 Author Posted December 27, 2013 Greenfairie, Im sorry. That sounds very painful and I can completely relate to how real the flashbacks of certain memories together comes on.... Since yesterday evening..I too have been obsessing about the thought whether my ex miss me or thinks about us, about me. Does he feel bad? Your right, its a comforting thought to have it confirmed that he cares or is thinking about the good times....And yet, i have to control ever bit of me to resist the urge and ask him via text or email..because I don't want to look pathetic. And I want to appear strong... Like you, I blocked him officially on Facebook..I have not yet blocked him on my phone because he's watching my pet over the break and I need to be available if something comes up...but I know that phone blocking is going to be the next step! Hugs to you. Thank you for your feedback… It is so hard sometimes. Sometimes I can't help just getting deep in thought about good memories we've shared together. It definitely helped me blocking him on FB but I think the fact I just did it…. and I can't look him up anymore which before I blocked him, I did a lot of that. I thought if he really wanted to reach me, he could just e-mail me. He has my e-mail. He also has my home address, both of them so he could always mail something there if he really wanted to. I also decided it was for the best because more misunderstandings happen with us via text.. We get along on so much better in person… Texting can be detrimental to a relationship.. Doesn't your ex have your e-mail? And yeah, for sure keep the phone line clear until you get your pet back.. I'm really sorry about that.. My sister went through the same thing recently.. Made me furious at times for her as a younger sister, wanted to text him and tell him off but decided that wasn't going to be a good idea… Eventually in a few months, he sent the dog back and the dog is living happily ever after with all of us…. I believe the same will happen for you
Reels Posted December 27, 2013 Posted December 27, 2013 If he cares, he may be feeling bad. Time will tell.
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